surely i can't be the only one whose relationship seems to be crumbling down around me. i have 8 week old twins and to be honest, daddy has been useless throughout the pregnancy, made me cry every other day & i put it down to MY hormones. was a moody, horrible, manipulative idiot when my babies were in special care and now that we are home, he seems very resentful that he has to go to work and i get to "sit home and do nothing all day". he has a go at me for literally ANYTHING, i will say "it's not quite bottle time yet" and he'll go nuts. he'll ask me what i want for dinner and i will say "i don't know" and he will go in a mood. child benefit money came through and he went in a huff cause it goes into my account? says "i won't see a penny of it" and "you get everything paid to you"??? WHAT? fed up of it i'm so tempted to just take my boys and leave.