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Is it only me who feels distaste at the current crop of abusive childhood-lit?

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WideWebWitch · 10/06/2007 19:56

With titles like "mummy don't" etc
I find it all very distasteful

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Enid · 10/06/2007 19:57

god I hate them

have never read one and never would

do you have the Everythign is Shit books

they are very funny about them

Zog · 10/06/2007 19:57

There was a good article about this this week - will see if I can link. fwiw, I agree with you.

nickytwotimes · 10/06/2007 19:57

you're not alone. there was a thread about this last month. they are horrible - wouldn't want to read them.

BrothelSprouts · 10/06/2007 19:59

I was only saying this to DH yesterday.
The book shop was crammed with them.
It's like Dave Pelzer, or whatever he's called, has stirred the literary (term used very loosely) urge in anyone who has ever had a problem.

WendyWeber · 10/06/2007 20:01

Oh there was one from some posh vicar in the Mail or Express or something last week (it was picked by a relation of mine on a sunlounger or something, honest) and it was horrible - and included total recall of a 5-year-old 50 years later apparently.

Tosh.

Zog · 10/06/2007 20:05

here

Blandmum · 10/06/2007 20:06

Really do like them. Feel sorry for the writers, glad they can get things out of their system, never, ever, ever want to read them.

I did read Angela's Ashes, and that was enough for me.

nickytwotimes · 10/06/2007 20:07

"...vicarious self pity." that about sums it up .

DeviousDaffodil · 10/06/2007 20:08

Not read any of them, don't know why anyone would want to read them.
Writers are jumping on the bandwagon.

Blandmum · 10/06/2007 20:08

Sorry, my post should have read really don't like them

Piffle · 10/06/2007 20:10

me too tescos is the worst

Boco · 10/06/2007 20:13

Mis-lit, can't imagine anything less entertaining.

Did you read moondogs opinions on dave peltzer, made me rofl.

BreeVanDerCamp · 10/06/2007 20:14

I read the Dave ones about 10 years ago. Who would have thought it would have spawned an industry.

LaDiDaDi · 10/06/2007 20:15

I've never read any of them and I have nno desire to do so. My mother reads them and can't understand why I don't.

DeviousDaffodil · 10/06/2007 20:15

I think people read it to feel better about themsleves ie If they read it and sympathise with the author it reinforces their own feelings of being a 'good' person because they feel sad for the person.
Like when Diana died - I feel sad therefore i must be really sensitive and good.
Liek the ' vicarious guilt' analogy.

WideWebWitch · 10/06/2007 20:17

I can't even look at them on the bookshelves in Borders and I wouldn't dream of reading one, I am a soppy sap though, I can't read stuff like this at all. Who are these people buying them?

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LadyMacbeth · 10/06/2007 20:18

I think they're awful. It smacks of self-indulgence and I find attention-grabbing titles such as 'Please Daddy Don't' or whatever really sickening.

I am fortunate to have not had a terrible childhood, so one could argue that there's no way I can imagine what it must have been like for these people, but I think if I had been the subject of a terrible childhood experience I would maintain my dignity by not cashing in on my past.

Agree about Tescos, there's a section dedicated to them in my local.

Enid · 10/06/2007 20:22

great article, thanks for link

Marina · 10/06/2007 20:27

Absolutely agree. Find the whole phenomenon puzzling and repulsive tbh.
Will look at Zog's article later

Mercy · 10/06/2007 20:27

I've read one volume (or 2?) of Janet Frame's autobiography but that was some time ago now.

It seems like over load now. I'm sure these types of books will have lost the impact that was intended. I'm not keen on the sound of books like 'Toxic parents' either.

What did Moondog say then? I'd love to hear it!

LaBoheme · 10/06/2007 20:40

I had the misfortune to skim over one of these books the other day on my lunchbreak. The descriptions of abuse on this little girl (now a woman looking back) were so graphic, written in really descriptive, bite size paragraphs. I actually felt concerned it could get into the wrong hands.

ScottishMummy · 10/06/2007 21:39

eeeeeuuuggggghhhhh completeley agree in my local woolworths it is jampacked with chart (so obviously it sells) books all about

incest
neglect
abuse
traumatic childhood

don't understand this mawkish phenomena

DeviousDaffodil · 10/06/2007 21:43

It is pure voyeurism and in teh worst taste.

Marina · 10/06/2007 21:45

Mercy, but I'd personally categorise Janet Frame and Frank McCourt as literate writers and therefore worth reading whatever their subject.
I thought the quote from the literary agent in Zog's link was telling: "a certain amount of prurience is involved" - which is catered for and encouraged by people like him, who ought to know better .
I agree that much of this sort of writing is probably cathartic for the authors but how the publishers can feel comfortable about this genre is beyond me.

suedonim · 10/06/2007 22:29

There has been a thread, or maybe two, in the Books section about this subject. WHS now have a Misery section for them.