Partner is worried

[lilemmie666]

Im 23wks4ds with my 1st, my partner is worried about been left alone with the baby when he/she is here as his family have said some awful things about my partner such as he cant be trusted around children, he grooms youngs children etc which is all bull, he would never harm anyone or anything, his family are just warped in the head and live off spreading rumours....but my partner is worried his family might start more accusations once the baby is here hence why he only told me 3 days ago he doesnt want to be left alone with baby incase rumours and accusations start again. I just dont know what to do as i want him to be an active roll 100% and that includes nappy changes, bath times, bed times, having baby whilst im at work. I just dont know how to approach it. Any help would be greatly appriciated

Firstly your oh needs to go Nc with any family member who would make up such nastiness.
If he doesn’t do these things he should ignore them completely. Challenging them directly might be a good way to stop the innuendo.
When the baby arrives he’ll probably be so besotted he’ll engage without another thought. But if he’s still worried, get him to help you, he’ll soon get the hang of it.
Share bathing and nappy changes. Watch him to reassure yourself, and you’ll see he will be fine.
Congratulations