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Amyxo123 · 18/07/2018 23:07

Me and my mum had an ok relationship before my daughter was born... we probably got closer when I was pregnant & then the first weeks my daughter was here.

Since then my daughter is now 2 & I'm expecting an other girl at the end of the year I feel like we have became so distant.

2 months ago myself and my partner moved in with my mum and dad due to us saving for a mortgage to buy our first home instead of renting.

Before the move in she would make comments about how my car was messy or how my daughter should have a heavier jacket on etc so I would dread meeting up with her as I knew she would have something to moan about.

Since moving in it was been constant I can't move without her nagging about something how my daughter makes her house so untidy and her house hasn't been clean from the day we moved it and how my partner doesn't help enough and stays in the room after his work. She has even said she's doesn't have time for him (only reason he doesn't sit in there company as she's very negative most of the time)

We are moving out in 3 weeks time & I can't wait but I honestly don't know how I can move on and have her relationship go back to how it was (not the best in the beginning anyways but better that now)

I personally think we just clash all the time

Can anyone help it's really getting me down??

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MissConductUS · 19/07/2018 00:30

Just move out and put it behind you. She was perhaps reasonably unhappy about the reality of you, your partner and DD moving in. It's a big disruption.

I think things can get back to normal with her after a bit once you're on your own again.

Rebecca36 · 19/07/2018 03:58

I agree with MissConductUS. You and your mother will be fine once you move so bite your tongue for the next three weeks, it'll soon go.

Well done to you for getting your own place, it's quite exciting.

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