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I need some advice about my sister

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powder28 · 11/05/2007 12:26

I have posted various things about my sister and her vile dh before. Basically he is a manipulative, nasty bully, and he has alienated my sister from her family by convincing her we are all against her. He has thrown her phone away, her only way of contacting any of us becasue it had all our numbers in it.
Anyway I have received a letter from the doctors addressed to them. I opened it because they are never going to come and collect it. The letter is about their youngest ds's pneumococcal jab. He hasnt had it, and the letter says that they have written to them previously with no reply.
Firstly, the subject of the injection is not the issue. I am concerned that this man is not a healthy influence on anyone and my sister is a doormat. I am concerned that we have not heard from them for over a year and now this letter has arrived I am considering letting the doctors at the surgery know about all this. My mum and dad will not do anything for fear of this man doing something silly. I, on the other hand, think something very sinister is going on and I am very worried about their children. I lived with them for a year and I saw the way they treated their daughter. The only thing i know about them is that they live on a boat.
I'm so sorry this is so long. Please, what should I do?

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powder28 · 11/05/2007 12:28

I should just my mum is distraught about not seeing her grandchildren for so long.

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singingmum · 11/05/2007 12:35

If you really think that some harm could come to any of them then tell doc.If you think he is harming children or if you know he is then FGS call SS.
I know it sounds drastic but if you have suspicions and something happens and you did nothing you will find it v.hard to live with.

hayes · 11/05/2007 12:36

I think you need to contact SS too, if there are no concerns they will find that out but if there are the family should get the help that they need

tribpot · 11/05/2007 12:48

Did the previous letters arrive at the house too? Or are the surgery staff trying previous addresses to try and get hold of them?

I'd contact the surgery and social services as the others have said. Very worrying.

powder28 · 11/05/2007 13:41

There have been no other letters. I thought maybe the other letters had got lost in the post but perhaps they have tried our previous address.
A friend said she saw my sister in Sainsburys a few weeks ago, so she is obviously ok, but im not sure what they are doing for money. Neither of them had a job when they lived with us and when my sister finally got a job he convinced her to ditch it. She was coming home quite happy talking about the people at work and never said she didnt like it. Then he made her give it up and she said 'Oh good, I don't have to go back to that hell hole again'
So should i talk to the doctors first?

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