I really didn't know where to post this.
Me and my parents use to be so close, we live next door to each other and when my eldest came along we became more closer. But the past 2 years we have grown apart, my sister isn't always nice to me but then again we never been close so i can deal with that by ignoring her. But since last year my mum especially as gotten a bit horrible, and i'm in a right state on what to do. She has digs at me all the time, tells me how to do stuff and sometimes what i should do with my children, my mum also does alot with my sister than me, and when i've asked her she just says i have kids. Both parents took over my wedding planning and christenings, mum also is trying to stop me from going shopping with them once a week (its easier to go in their car to do shopping with kids) and at the moment i'm suffering really badly with anxiety and depression so i really thought they'd be there for me. I'm finding all this really difficult to get my head around. I wanna talk to them about it but i know it will go to the extreme where we end up not speaking or seeing each other... so i'm feeling lost on what to do and how to go around it. I'm already in an hard place. I'm just wondering how people would go about all this, because i really don't think talking with them will do anything. I feel soo lost right now, i'm really struggling