Oh god I feel weary and sad please come and be kind if possible

[FrannyandZooey]

Thank you.

oh well franny -one thig I wanted to say to you is that a while ago on a thread you were talking about stuff adn it made me think about stuff and i have decided to give up drinking because of something you helped me with and - well - not going into it anymore but you helped.

And you are good.

And I put your name on one of those cleeky bolloxy threads about insiprational mumsnetters even though you weren't around and ... um.. becauseof you I bought some extra oranges today and...

oh fuck it woman - you are fab - you have helped me with loads of shit and I am fucked off that you feel shit and I can't help.

ds is 3.6 and is what kind people would call 'young for his age'. Because I put my sanity high up the list he has been in a nursery 2-3 days a week since he was 8 months old. He has only seemed to like it in the past 4 weeks or so (waits to be crapped on by anyone feeling good and judgey). Not helping you, just saying I might have felt some of the same, some of the time. It is shit sometimes. I have cried at parents' evenings and agonised over how to do the 'right thing' (hint: there isn't a right thing. I am a SAHM 2 days a week and it's enough to tell me he would be worse off being looked after me full-time).

Sorry can't help more than offering to share the experience of feeling bad sometimes. Do you have a TV? The Apprentice will be on at 9om and you can watch it smugly, knowing that you will never be like any of them.

No, really, a fleece bra!!! How can you be gloomy in a world where people wear fleece bras?
Seriously though, I am sorry you feel blue. I hope you feel better soon.

LOL Dimpled that is very kind indeed

HC maybe yes

but have said about 3 times he does go and people still keep suggesting maybe it would help to have some time apart

anyway have said will bugger off and will

just looked at another few threads and there is some serious pain around tonight and I am only a dilettante here

I know he does!! its' just that you were asking 'what's it all about?' - and I was responding! Hope you're OK.

I'm not at all slightly tipsy...

Thanks Lio and MiB as well

Franny, there is alway serious pain around on MN. Yours is just as important as anyone else's, don't bugger off.

I got bitten by a loofah a week ago and my hand is still swollen and has these funny little blisters on it.
I am pretty sure the loofah attack was some peculiar karmic revenge because I was skeptical about the mooncup thing.

Does that help?

Greeny - I was just going to say that - misery's misery - doesn't matter what scale it's on, it's still horrible to go through. Hugs Franny (do you do hugs?!).

you matter to people whove never even met you. thats gotta be worth something.

Yeah, F&Z, I've been carrying a little torch for you ever since we had that argument about Sean Bean!

oh Nappy!! You made me well up, never mind Frangipani!

fmv - have you been on the juice again??

oh dear. You can tell???

oh, but hang on, it's a full moon innit?

oh Franny - sorry you feel weary and sad.
Here, lay yur head on my shoulder a moment and just rest there for a bit. It'll all be ok. xxx

yes fmv - i am feeling the fullmoon factor here so your entitled to too! and i think i have a bug too

your ! pet hate. sorry; youre

(am so not usually a pedant. like i said...full moon...

hey franny.

Thank you all chaps I feel better for now

This is a good place to come and offload and you are all my favourite and my best

yeah, but im the best best, right?

well

maybe

meanie