Inspired by the 'doubting paternity' thread (and a few glasses of wine) is life better if we all behave ourslves? If I had behaved myself I woudln't have my daughter. I can't help feeling all these paternity doubts are all part of life's rich tapestry whilst knowing them to have caused hurt. But I'm drawn to the romantic argument. Are there benefits, positive side effect to people misbehaving or am I just a drunken ol' fool?