The whole family was at my mum's for an Easter get together, and as it was so nice we ate out in the garden. All the adults were sat around the garden table chatting and the dc's who had finished eating were diddling about playing with the garden toys. All of a sudden, my sister shouted 'OMG, E (my dd2) is in the pond!!', my brother (who was nearest, dh and I were at the other end of the table) and tried to pull her out, it seemed to take him forever, as she was struggling against him apparently, and I was screaming 'Get her out, please get her out', eventually, he managed to yank her out and she was screaming her head off!!! I kind of went into autopilot, whipping off her clothes, drying her off, running her a bath to warm her up and get the yukky pond water off her. Then my mum came up to me, grabbed my arm and said 'Are you OK?' and I just crumbled. I couldn't stop sobbing. It was unbelievable that with 9 adults in the garden and only one small access point to the pond that she had got herself in that position. I keep going over all the awful 'what if' scenarios in my head and torturing myself, I know it is pointless, she is ok, but I can't help it!!