I just needed to rant I think. So for 7 years of my daughters life I was a single mum, I never complained, compared etc as it was something that happened and I just got on with it. Now I'm in a relationship and I have another daughter. Every time I have a little moan, say I've been up all night with one of the kids (emphasis on I'VE) to one of my best friends (single mum) I get "oh well least you have a fella" same if I'm poorly, my endo played up last week to the point I was at hospital. I was telling her I hadn't slept for two days, I was knackered, in pain and was missing playing with the kids her response "oh well least you've got a fella" it's like no matter what worry or issue I have it doesn't matter because (yes you guessed it) I have a fella. She hates being single and moans constantly about it. Our mutual friend notices it too and says it's not an argument with her she thinks "no matter what problem we have it doesn't matter because I have a fella" it really winds me up, I've pulled her on it so many times to no avail 😑 does anyone else think it's daft to think like she does 🙄