My husband drives me nuts. But I think I might be forgetting how good he is in other areas.
Pros
Hard working
Determined
Focused
Caring
Good dad
Non drinker/drugs etc
Dosent go to the pub, play any sports
Has one friend who he'll rarely see
Cons
So disorganised, it drives me nuts
All he ever goes on about is S! Every single day. I'm low drive, he's high. Twice a week is not good enough.
Really bad with money and constantly changes his mind about things. Wanted a motorbike, brought one then didn't want one, wanted a caravan, brought one, now dosent want one. Brought a new van, sold it after a couple of months. Brought a new car, now wishes he brought a different one. Wanted a dog, got one, didn't want one.
His outlook on money bringing happiness, clashes with mine. I'm content with an old car and small house, he wants the latest car with the biggest house. This really bugs me. Money is the motivator for working long hours. I'm talking very long hours which leaves me feeling like a single parent. He's missing out on his 3 children, sacrificing quality family time, for working more for more money. We have had many discussions and I've said that the children are only young once and he will regret not being around later on when he realises money isn't everything.
Frustrated!
Please be kind!