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This made me cry....

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Lisa78 · 24/06/2004 21:03

F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."
I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?

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codswallop · 24/06/2004 21:04

Oh lisa you old sop!

deegward · 24/06/2004 21:07

God, this is so poignent. My dh has just cut his sister out of his life, and doesn't really speak to his family, par tof me wants to send this on to his mum, but I think it would make matters worse. I so believe in Kismit, this was meant it really was. Lisa78 what have you done!?

Crystaltips · 24/06/2004 21:09

That's why I stopped work .....

Money is tighter and we don't have as many material things ....

But I am there for the children ... and they take me for granted ....

GOOD

Lisa78 · 24/06/2004 21:11

haven't done anything - today, thank God! But it just serves as a reminder really doesn't it, whats important and whats not

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Angeliz · 24/06/2004 21:11

Oh now i'm all teary

deegward · 24/06/2004 21:14

No Lisa, I meant what have you done to me, by posting this poem. It really has affected me, I hate dh not talking to his family and have tried so hard to bring them together.

Lisa78 · 24/06/2004 21:16

Oh God deegward, I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to make things hard for you
Lots of hugs and apologies

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prettycandles · 25/06/2004 14:32

I shouted at my darling boy today. It isn't his fault that he is only 3.

shrub · 25/06/2004 15:05

lisa78 - so true. when ds1 was a few months old an old lady came up to me saying how sad it makes her feel because she realised what little time she spent with her own children. when i die i want to be remebered as a good mum (whatever that means!) you don't see 'she was a good administration officer' on a gravestone.

suzywong · 25/06/2004 15:16

Oh how poignant (sp).
Before I got my diagnosis of thyroid trouble I would often say things like that to DS1, I just didn't have the energy to take it slowly and see things from his point of view. I am very sad that I acted that way, but he still says he loves me and also says 'Mum now you have taken your medicine you aren't cross any more are you'

Lisa78 · 25/06/2004 19:43

oh bless him suzy! He obviously understands, the little love

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Freddiecat · 25/06/2004 22:45

Oh that made me cry!

nikcola · 25/06/2004 23:28

thAT HAS REALLY MADE ME THINK(SHE SAYS WITH TEARS RUNNING DOWN HER FACE) i was so horribe to dd today and all she was doing was being a normal toddler

nightowl · 26/06/2004 05:04

this really got to me because that is EXACTLY what my ds does. he's always picking me little flowers (or weeds!) and i feel like since i had dd, my time is always with her. i feel so guilty because i find myself now dismissing ds when we were once so close. i always seem to be saying "later" "tomorrow" "get out of my way" "stop following me around". i cried when i read this and vowed to spend more time with my little boy and stop taking him for granted. things change so much when there's two of them

Gingerbear · 26/06/2004 07:05

Lisa, I'm crying too. DD picks flowers for me all the time. Stop it, the whole of mumsnet will be in tears soon!

curlysue · 26/06/2004 08:49

I'm crying too now!!!

I woke up this morning and my two dds came into bed with me and were hugging me and holding hands with each other and I thought how lucky and happy I am. We should all make sure we appreciate them!

But now I'm off to shout at them to get washed and do their hair

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