Would you be annoyed if ....

[hunkeydorey]

a group of Yr2 boys were surrounding your YrR dd in the playground and making her say nasty things about you? (as in nasty things about you, the mum).

Taking dd to brownies now but would be interested to know what you think.

Sorry to hear about your dh Serenity.

I think it would help to have someone with me, but I haven't really got anyone I could ask. My mum isn't available, exp is worse than useless and he will have the kids anyway, my friend who I could normally ask has her own problems at the moment. I will just have to try and keep it together.

I will try and make a few notes of what I want to say and take my time I suppose, so that I retain a bit of self control.

Would you really remove your dd Chi? I also thought I would remove my kids at the first sign of bullying, but now that it's happened, I haven't done that. I think if they were both being physically hurt then I would, but I'm really conscious of the fact that everyone thinks I'm over reacting.

I don't think you are over reacting but I wouldn't take my kids out at this stage. If you get no support from the headteacher though it might be something worth thinking about. I hope you get some proper support from the school. Good luck

Do you know who the boys were? Or does she?
I would definitely mention it to the school, and the school should want to know these things and welcome being told so that they can stamp out bullying as soon as possible.
My lovely school were great when my son was being bullied - some older boys were tripping him up. The older boys didn't think it was bullying, but the school did and stopped it immediately.
I (speed)read your previous post and you need to keep that phrase "emotional NOT irrational" in mind. FGS it is natural to be emotional about your children being treated in this manner and the fact that it is upsetting them.
Good luck.

My DS (7) got called a tw*at today after school by another boy his age. Unfortunatley, I didn't hear it. But the same boy had just been kicking seven bells of poo out of another child. His mum stood there and only stepped in when he was kicking the other boys face. Then she had the cheek to say that the other boy started it.

Makes me so angry.