DD goes to "early care" as well as nursery at school. The 3 staff who are there when we drop her off are all part of the Early Years Team. 2 of the staff are fantastic, friendly and welcoming but without being "Cbeebies presenters" IYSWIM. The third is completely different. She doesn't say good morning to either parents/kids when they are dropped off and just sits there looking malevolent. The only time we have heard her speak is when she completely "lost it" with the kids because they weren't tidying up fast enough.
DH is increasingly wound up about this woman (we've been assuming that she has some awful home problems) and wants to "mention" her behaviour to the head (it's a relatively small private school). Part of the problem is that her attitude is so strikingly different to that of the other staff who are polite,approachable and who we can't praise enough.
As I've found out by writing this post it's very difficult to describe exactly what is wrong with this woman except bad attitude-shouldn't be around kids, so how on earth do we approach this? At the moment I'm trying to stop DH making some sort of official complaint based on the fact that she wears bizarre make-up (actually listed as an indicator of many psychiatric disorders)but agree that some sort of comment should be made (oh and it's not just us that thinks she needs a quiet word).