goingfor3 I am a moggeler, I am one of the mums that gets ridiculed, I take it how its meant I don't get offended and I don't get reeled in. Its not because I don't want to get involved i just don't feel the need to justify myself and therefore don't. Think is these kind of rows always go the same way, and whilst the mogellers complain about people being rude they then start being rude themsleves. Its all kind of pointless really and for mners quite amusing just because it always goes the same way. If i were you I'd just leave it , you are playing a part in a well orchestrated argument.