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This is getting silly now

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dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:12

Right i've changed my name for this cos i feel like an idiot really and don't want dp to read.

I cannot stop thinking about or dreaming about a lad i used to know at school, and it's driving me mad.
I've always dreamt about him alot, usually about being at school or something similar, but 5 times now, i have dreamt that he is dead or seriously ill and dying. Twice i've dreamt that i'm at his funeral and i've woken up crying (try explaining that to dp).
It is really bugging me now though because i haven't seen him since i was at college and no one else i know has seen him either. I have his old address and phone number but am to much of a wimp to ring and find out if he's still there or indeed alive.
It's turing into an obsession, everytime i go out i'm looking at evry bloke to see if it's him.
My friend said that dreaming of death means something about a birth. Well if thst the case he must have loads of kids by now

I know it's stupid problem but it's bugging me now.

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ChicPea · 04/06/2004 09:14

Why don't you go onto www.Friendsreunited.co.uk to look him up? It's the website to look up old school chums. It's v.interesting.

Freckle · 04/06/2004 09:14

Are you pregnant? It doesn't have to be him who has the kids

gothicmama · 04/06/2004 09:16

dreaming about death usually signals rebirth or change (death of old things) Perhaps your dream is telling you to move on- is there an issue with this person you need to resolve - would it help if you rang the number. Do you think you might be grieving for your youth or how things were before perhaps this how you brain is trying to sort it out so many questions for you to reflect on. Hope you can solve it

dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:17

Have already checked FR and he is on there but has left no profile or anything. I did email him, but no reply, which just made me think he's dead.

Freckle - God no, i'm definatly not pregnant.

Don't want to keep emailing him, as he may just not want to reply and i'll look like an obssessed stalker.
It is weird though, don't you think ??? No one has seen him in about 8 years.

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gothicmama · 04/06/2004 09:19

maybe he has become a hermit. friends reunited has not been going 8 years has it?

dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:19

Hmmm you could be right GM. There was a bit of an issue which never really got resolved.
Haven't got the guts to ring him though, wouldn't know what to say.

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dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:20

Don't know GM. I tried to find out when he registered, but it only puts the date when someone updates there profile.

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gothicmama · 04/06/2004 09:22

dreamy maybe you could write a letter to him you do not have to post it and it might help you resolve things for you

dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:24

I seriously considered paying over 100 quid for a search on him, thats how silly it's getting.

It's just bugging me

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dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:26

Yeah i could do that, but then i wouldn't know if he was still alive then would i.

I've never dreamt of anyone else being dead so often.
Maybe i'm just strange

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ShouldKnowByFriday · 04/06/2004 09:27

Why don't you organise a class reunion? That gives you the excuse to ring him if he didn't reply to your email. I have received emails from people and I haven't replied, similarly, I have emailed people and they haven't replied. Some people just don't want any contact or maybe they are unhappy with their lives and really, when you think about it, we were all young at school with our lives ahead of us. Then at 35-40, you are either successful and fulfilled, or not. It's the "Or Nots" who are less confident with this site, I think.

gothicmama · 04/06/2004 09:28

ok can you contact his parents, or if local paper for notices bit morbisd that one tho. 3

gothicmama · 04/06/2004 09:29

good idea shouldknowbyfriday

dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:33

That is a good idea SKBF but isn't it a bit early for a reunion. We are all only 25/6 now.

Never knew his parents GF so don't know how i'd contact them.
I forget now, is there a message boeard on FR where you can leave messages for peole ???

If there was i could leave a message for anyone who has had contact with him to contact me.

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dreamy · 04/06/2004 09:34

GM not GF, sorry

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