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Oops , may have made myself unpopular at school ...

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LIZS · 06/12/2006 11:57

dd(5) has been off school all this week with a viral cough/cold she picked up at a school (a lot of kids have been off with it in the past week or so). She's also had ear ache as it now appears she has glue ear and the cold has made it worse and painful, causing her to sleep badly. Anyway today she is much better, very much more herself today, no fever, less coughing just in need of a day at home to regain her energy and snooze if needs be. So having dropped ds off we went into the school office to say she wouldn't be in today but probably tomorrow.

As we were leaving we were called into her classroom by the TA to pick up some craft bits to make a calendar at home as they had done in class yesterday. While we headed for the car some of her friends were just arriving and obviously queried why she wasn't in uniform and the mothers pulled their kids away when I said she'd had this virus.

Have I committed a huge faux pas or did they overreact ? We hadn't intended to run into anyone this morning although we did also attend ds' play performance last night as otherwise we'd have missed it and we had to ferry ds anyway.

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lou33 · 06/12/2006 12:02

they overreacted, what were you supposed to do , leave her at home alone?

Hattiecat · 06/12/2006 12:02

How ridiculous lizs - how on earth are you supposed to get ds in and out of school and if everyone else has been falling ill with it then def not a problem taking dd with you. massive overreaction imo!

Alva · 06/12/2006 12:03

My son is still too little for me to have much experience with this kind of thing - but fwiw I don't think you've done anything wrong! Glad she's feeling better.

CarolSheetTurner · 06/12/2006 12:04

They were over-reacting, definitely! Honestly, some people are a bit ridiculous. Their children are at school, for heaven sake, I can't think of a bigger breeding and spreading ground for germs, viruses and all other nasties.

Daft chumps!

McDreamy · 06/12/2006 12:04

but if you're not symtomatic they can't catch it from you anyway!!! Total over reaction - glad she's feeling better

LIZS · 06/12/2006 12:06

Well I suppose I did just drop ds off at the designated point(he walks himself in) so didn't have to get out of the car and could have rung the office instead. I left dd in the car the other afternoon when collecting ds at her request (she was snoozing) and cmae back to find her really upset as it was too dark to read by then.

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DontlookatmeImshy · 06/12/2006 12:07

No I don't think they overreacted but I don't think you should worry about it either. Tbh I would've probably pulledmy child away too, sort of an instinctive protective reaction but other than that I wouldn't have thought anything of it, just assumed that you had her with you because NOT having her with you wasn't possible, same situation I would be in.

McDreamy · 06/12/2006 12:09

D'oh read the op properly McDreamy -

ThrockenAroundTheChristmasTree · 06/12/2006 12:40

as you say - it is going round the area, and your DD is almost recovered - so I think you were fine and they over-reacted - they must have been exposed to it in lots of other places by now.

busybusymum · 06/12/2006 12:45

they over-reacted. they should be thankful that you were considerate enough to not send DC to school. I have heard so many mums say " has xxx" been ok today?. Only they were ill last night"

I went into school last week and saw a little lad clearly unwell, laying on the floor, eyes and nose streaming, he was so hot. this was at 9am so parents had know what state he was in but they were christmas shopping and didnt pick him up until 12.30!

paulaplumpbottom · 06/12/2006 12:51

They overreacted. I would have sneezed on them.

ComeOyefaithfulVeneer · 06/12/2006 12:55

"I went into school last week and saw a little lad clearly unwell, laying on the floor, eyes and nose streaming, he was so hot"

Poor little thing, that brought a tear to my eye.

paulaplumpbottom · 06/12/2006 13:05

Why did't the school send him home?

busybusymum · 06/12/2006 14:33

They tried to phone parents several times but parents wanted to finish their shoppping first. Turned up at 12.30 child goes home at 12.45 anyway!

Rantaclaus · 06/12/2006 14:34

Some parents are such freaks...

lou33 · 06/12/2006 18:56

Rantaclaus = best name on here!

JollyOldSaintNikkielas · 06/12/2006 20:09

A couple of weeks ago there was a child with measles in the playground!The mother wasn't even attempting to keep him away from others!

paulaplumpbottom · 06/12/2006 20:19

How could you go Christmas shopping if you knew your little one was sick? Whats wrong with people?

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