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Mosschops would like to say ..............

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mosschops30 · 30/11/2006 14:50

In view of the public stoning I have had on the M&B thread I would just like to say a few things.

Having been a member of mumsnet for 3 years or so I have witnessed this kind of relentless attack before, although luckily it was never directed at me. Guess it was my turn, and can now empathise with other posters who have left due to the out and out bullying that goes on here. Having your opinion on mn is great and I have had many a heated discussion with posters but this was not a heated discussion.

In my defence I would like to say that I am a generally nice person, I work in a care setting and every day I go to work and I do my best to help as many people as I can, some are grateful and some are not, some are nice and some are not but thats the job and I love it.

I have been off sick for a week and yes when I went to the supermarket I was tired, sick, and had not been out for 4 days. However I'm not sure this coloured my view of the situation or made any difference.

At no time did I suggest that old people should stay indoors as has been inferred on the thread. Nor did I ask for a round of applause for the way the situation was handled. I did not at any time raise my voice to the driver of the car.

For those of you that can get your toddler out of the rear of a small car in a normal space then i take my hat off to you, I cannot however unless I pull him out by his arms. And I could certainly not get him back in.

For those of you that have attacked me over the past two days I envy the fact that you never raise your voice, lose your cool, handle a situation incorrectly, or are rude to anyone.

Sadly I am not always perfect and for that I can only apologise.

I hope the thread can be put to bed, and life can return to normal

OP posts:
oliveoil · 30/11/2006 14:51

I have drawn a line on your thread so they will give up.

Not that anyone listens to me....

xx

foxtrot · 30/11/2006 14:53

mosschops

lulumama · 30/11/2006 14:55

haven;t read it.....but hope you are ok....

lockets · 30/11/2006 14:55

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handlemecarefully · 30/11/2006 15:01

Mosschops - I loathe the way the bloodlust gets going and a pack mentality sets in on mumsnet every so often. I usually try and post something supportive of the 'victim' - not because I am a bloody saint or anything, but because in 4 years or so I've been there a couple of time myself!

It's a really ugly thing to see when it happens on threads....

handlemecarefully · 30/11/2006 15:03

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Quadrophenia · 30/11/2006 15:05

Mosschops I am the queen of crapness and left the thread early on yesterday and haven't been back. I never intended to be part of any bullying and merely put my point across sorry if you were upset by it though

AitchTwoOh · 30/11/2006 15:20

i second what lockets said. plus after a short while it wasn't even about your OP any more Mosschops, other people came on and took the discussion to ever higher (lower) heights.

Anchovy · 30/11/2006 15:20

For the record, Mosschops, I was on another thread at the time about people being rude in general which sort of got cross referred to in your thread. I mentioned something in passing about people being rude to old ladies in supermarkets and actually didn't mean you at all -I hadn't read your thread at the time I posted it and I was thinking about something else entirely. So please don't think everyone is out to get you!

(If it is any consolation I started a thread some time ago about recommendations for a party entertainer, which I was a bit loathe to use as I thought they were expensive for what the were and also a bit annoying and I got such a collective kicking I was reeling around dazed and confused for days!)

PrettyCandles · 30/11/2006 15:27

Yes, that thread was a bit excessive. I think there was a heck of a lot of interpretation going on, with people reading a different meaning into posts than the one intended. I certainly did't see the OP as relating to the tiredness issue, but at the same time didn't see it as an attack on old people.

As ever, text doesn't come across as clearly as speech - none of the nuances of tone, stress, rythm etc, so misunderstandings creep in.

handlemecarefully · 30/11/2006 16:28

wilful misunderstandings!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 30/11/2006 16:42

Ach, it'll all come out in the wash.

joelallie · 30/11/2006 16:42

I really don't think it was that savage TBH. Seen a lot worse on many subjects. I think some reasonable points were raised but maybe they should have been raised elsewhere.

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