f-**ing neighbours!

[misdee]

still in my drive/bay. i feel like parking across it tbh.

Do you share a driveway with your neighbours? I'm just confused why they'd park in your driveway. Considering everything that you've had to go through, you'd think they'd be tolerant of a carer coming to see a client.

report her to the care agency they mean.

Park across them and let them come to ask you to move. Explain the situation about possibly having Peter trying to load all his electric health equipment into the car. If they don't give a monkeys about that, could you not get the space marked as disabled only by the council.

Get the agency to call them to complain about them being abusive to their employee. Could you not speak to the police or the council about them. Especially if they're being abusive and swearing at visitors.

there are seven 'bays' in front of 3 bungalows. they have 3 in front of theirs, one in front of mine, and 3 in front of the other one. we have a dropped kerb on ours which is good for LVAD trolly. today there is workmen parked on the bay up the other end (not theirs). they also have a drive way to fit 3 vechiles on. so a total of 6 spaces for them. i have one. just one. i parked round the corner earlier as the workmen had blcoked off the road and i couldnt get through, was ok as just me and dd3. by the time i went out to get dd1+2 from school someone from their place (them or one of their carers) has parked on my drive. so now i have to go out again later to move the car as otherwise the same will happen tomorrow. they keep doing this. its really pees me off.

oh and moving the car is hassle as peter is meant to be in either sight or hearing distance at all times

yes. very aware.

Speak to the council about getting the spaces defined for each property. If you have to, start putting cones up on your space. They are being totally inconsiderate of you and the other neighbours. How do you get on with the people in the other bungalow? Could you approach them to allow you to use one of their spaces? Like someone else said, contact the community police officer and ask them to come round. They should be able to approach your neighbours and ask them to show some consideration. They may take more notice of the police.

Sorry to hear you have such gits for neighbours.

the car is still there! i have no idea whose it is now. i managed to move ours to one closer and now on the same road so not too bad.

Unbelievable that they know about Peter's illness yet treat you and him like that. Want me and the rest of the bears to come over and growl at them? It's just something else to add to your stress levels too. I'm very cross on your behalf (not that that helps )!

Contact your local Community Officer. I did recently about the bay outside our house (on the street) because our next door neighbour is an arse. He managed to sort everyhing really quickly without bringing any extra hassle onto us.

i'm going out later with the girls, when i come back, if its still there then i will park in front of it.

right, the car has gone! it wasnt my neighbours [phew] though they have done this in the past.

the car went about 6pm, my neighbour knocked to tell me that he saw a man read the note on the car then drive off slowly down the street. We think it may be from the flats over the road.

i will be contacting the council about disabled markings on the bay, and if the neighbours kick off again towards any of my visitors then i have the number handy for the street warden.

what did you put in the note?