i'd report it, because as much as anything your girls have had some terrible life-shifting experiences lately and i think it will benefit them to know that you aren't going to let someone treat them badly without going the extra mile to stick up for them . horrible for you, of course... you are having to be so tough right now yorkiegirl, i really admire you and your strength but i understand that it isn't easy. i'm not an online hugger, really, but can i virtually squeeze your shoulder? what a shit thing to happen on your might out...