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poisonous bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:36

Someof you may have read the problems I have with my neighbour here

Well now she has been telling the neighbour that me and dh go out often an leave the kids home alone, o I wonder how long befor social services come knocking on the door.

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:36

ds is 5.9
dts are 2.11

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ledodgywizardrobespierre · 30/10/2006 12:37

I think you should report her to the police for slander at least then if she tries to get SS involved it's all down on record.

ginmummy · 30/10/2006 12:41

To be honest it sounds like you're not the only person she's like this with and though ss will need to investigate, once they contact the police they will realise what a nasty piece of work this person is and that everything's been said out of malice and to cause nothing but trouble.

Have you thought about making a complaint to the police for harrassment??

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:45

I have an appointment with the housing officer tomorrow, they work along line with the police for anti social behaviour, so I hope to reolve it through them.

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saintAugustine · 30/10/2006 12:45

i would pay for a solicitors letter. worth it in the long run.

ginmummy · 30/10/2006 12:51

slaughterfalls - even though it's not quite on the same scale as your neighbour, we had a neighbour who became quite well known for hurling abuse at people who dared to drive up our close, even people who were visiting, and eventually there were so many complaints made about him that the police issued him with an anti-social behaviour order and he's been strangely quiet for the last 4 months! The police can tell the difference betwen genuine concern for the welfare of children and malicous troublecausing, and she would go down as the latter.

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:52

Yesterday morning she switched her hoover on at 6am, and left it on til 9pm, I think he wants me to retaliate, so she can record it, I will not retaliate by lowering myself to her standard, I will go through the proper channels, that way she wont have a leg to tand on.

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:53

sorry I mean 9am

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:54

sorry about typos, 'S' key not working properly.

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ginmummy · 30/10/2006 12:56

Try keeping a diary of all the anti-social things she does like that.

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slaughterfalls · 30/10/2006 12:58

Erm, actually I have done one thing in retaliation, but it is genuine, she and her husband are commiting benefit fraud, so I have reported them, I am sure of the facts, so she will get whats coming to her.

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Mellowma · 30/10/2006 13:03

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LadyDooM · 30/10/2006 14:45

Definately do what ginmummy says and keep a diary, write down dates, times, and as many details as you can about what happened.

I have dealt with neighbors like yours and I really don't know why there are people like that. They seem to have nothing better to do with their lives other than make everyone else as miserable as possible.

Whatever you do, don't fall to their level. I know its hard not to retaliate, but once you do it will automatically be you that is causing the problems. Also avoid exchanging gossip and such, because it will turn on you.

Wish you the best and hope you have this resolved soon. Good Luck!!

LadyDooM · 30/10/2006 14:49

Also, when you speak to the housing officer try to keep yourself as calm and collected as possible. I would wear something nice and try to look as composed as possible.

NothingButAttitudeOnMN · 30/10/2006 14:53

When you meet with the housing officer, ask them if they have any diary sheets, they should have these so that you can record each event and send them in at the end of the week. I would also ask that everything be recorded officially and tell them that either she is dealt with properly or you would like to be re-housed (this may not be what you want but trust me they will do everything in their power so they don't have to re-house you) also make sure that they are aware that you will not hesitate to contact the police re harrassment.
Do not mention reporting them for benefit fraud because no matter how much evidence you have because of the situation they may see it a petty and think you are both as bad as each other. (I would have reported them by the way)

FioFio · 30/10/2006 14:54

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LadyDooM · 30/10/2006 14:58

LOL and avoid contact or speaking to your neighbors if you can, because you can't talk sense to senseless people.

In my situation, I tried talking it out with my neighbor, only to be verbally attacked and threatened!!

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