I'm a very regular poster but I have name changed for this as I have relatives on MN. I know that sex parties are an horrible concept for some people - fair enough but we are all different so please don't judge.
I have a very high sex drive but don't have time for a relationship right now. I have not found it very easy to find a man who wants something casual who is not either clingy or abusive. I have heard that sex parties, if you choose the right one can be very safe places to explore what you want to do without fear of getting into the wrong thing with the wrong person.
Most specifically I was wondering if anyone has been to a Killing Kittens party? I like the idea of going to an event where everyone has to dress up nicely.
Perhaps solid gold will be able to help? Any advice?