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I know I should be ok but I'm not.

18 replies

FreakyFloss · 14/10/2006 20:48

I have been bleeding since yesterday and am sure I have lost the baby. I don't want to go downb the whole have i haven't i because i am sure. I was only 4 and 4 FFS. But it was so wanted and i had got ahead of myself. DP has had to go to work - i thought i was doing ok. i feel so stupid posting.

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LadyTophamHatt · 14/10/2006 20:49

Oh Floss....

emkana · 14/10/2006 20:50

I am so sorry
Why do you say you should be okay? You have every right to be sad.

CreepyCrawlyCarmenere · 14/10/2006 20:50

for you Floss

BudaBeast · 14/10/2006 20:50

Oh no Floss!

Not stupid for posting hon. No way.

Don't know how to help though I am afraid. But am here anyway.

lulumama · 14/10/2006 20:51

why should you be ok.... you wanted a baby...so of course you are not stupid for posting.......no experience of m/c but want to say sorry.......sure someone with some words of wisdom will be along soon...

3andnomore · 14/10/2006 20:51

((FLoss)) why would it be stupid....so so sorry to hear that you are bleeding...have had 2 m/c's myself, not nice, but with es I had a fair bit of bleeding in the beginning and was convinced I had lost him, and even was told so by stupid stand in Ob-gyn...but obviously she got it wrong...es is 10 now!

misdee · 14/10/2006 20:52

oh floss make sure you get yourself seen to as soon as you can.

EnidVorhees · 14/10/2006 20:52

Floss this will be a hard time for you. I sympathise utterly. Please dont worry about posting. I am so sorry.

lucy5 · 14/10/2006 20:52

So sorry

chestnutty · 14/10/2006 20:53

Doesn't matter how far gone you where., it was still your baby.
Lots of pgs end early for lots of different reasons . mourn the loss but its natures way.

colditz · 14/10/2006 20:56

floss I feel for you, and if your situation makes me sad, then certainly %you are allowed to be ad, and you are allowed to be sad for as long as you want.

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FreakyFloss · 14/10/2006 21:03

Thank you. Hopefully I will get it out of my system tonight. I will be speaking to mum tomorrow and don't feel able to let on to her just how upset i have been. i should never have told her, just so wanted this to be a happy end to what has been at times a very shitty year.

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redsky · 14/10/2006 21:06

You shouldn't feel bad for posting. You weren't 'getting ahead of yourself'. You were expecting a baby and now having to adjust to this awful loss. So sorry .

hulababy · 14/10/2006 21:09

Sorry.

You have ever reason to feel sad and upset. Okay, it was early days for the pregnancy, but it was real. Its's not just the early oloss of the baby you will be grieving, but the loss of hopes and dreams of what would be - and that is really hard to lose.

Give yourself some time. Take care.

BlackMagicMiaou · 14/10/2006 21:15

Floss, ((((((((hugs))))))))))))

puddytats · 14/10/2006 21:20

So sorry for you floss.
Was told that I had 'lost' dd to a complete miscarriage - i bled heavily for 3-4 days. And i mean very heavily. She is now fast asleep upstairs and a very healthy 18 months.
Bleeding not alays means loss

foundintranslation · 14/10/2006 21:28

Oh no Floss. Oh no.

Please don't feel like you 'should' be OK.
I am here if you want to talk.

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FreakyFloss · 14/10/2006 21:43

Thanks everyone. PT - I am sure because i've already lost all pregnancy symptoms.

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