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Would you be annoyed - RANT ALERT! RANT ALERT!

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Radley · 21/09/2006 17:28

A while ago my bf split up with a fella, he promised her the world but broke her heart, he moved in with a woman he'd known a couple of weeks. In the meantime my mate met a lovely guy, he adores her, but, unfortunately he is far too boring for her.

Anyway ex came back on the scene about 2/3 weeks ago and since then it's really been inevitable they will get back together.

We had arranged a night out tonight, just the two of us and I have been really really looking forward to it, she has just text me to let me know her ex is coming too.

I don't mind, he is ok and I have a laugh with him, but, I can see him breaking her heart again in the very near future, it's the kind of guy he is. I've told my mate that I support her 110% in doing what makes her happy, but I've also told her she is making a mistake.

I am just annoyed now that he has come back on the scene and my mate and I have NO time together as he is always there etc, I'm not jealous, I know what it;s like to be in the first flushes of romance/lust etc, but she is completely different person when she is around him etc, when she had split up from him she was much much happier after a while, smiling more etc and alot of fun, now she is quite quiet round him and it annoys me.

Sorry for the rant, but don't have a friend in rl that she doesn't know.

Would you be annoyed at her inviting her ex at short notice?

To be honest now I'm not that bothered about going as I know she will be watching what she is saying and doing in case he kicks off.

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Radley · 21/09/2006 18:08

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Bucketsofdinosaurs · 21/09/2006 18:14

Yes I would, you don't want to be a gooseberry and what kind of bloke wants to go out with his girlfriend and her mate?
I would txt back saying you were looking forward to a girlie night. Maybe suggest you have something personal to discuss with her. If it ends up just you two and she asks what it was, tell her it was hypothetical and maybe even tell her how she behaves differently.

Bibiboo · 21/09/2006 20:32

I would probably feel the same way, but there is little you can do. You'd told her what you think, you can only do so much without becoming the baddie. Just be there for her if it all hits the fan again.

You could suggest they go out as a couple and you two reschedule your "girls" night another time...?

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