Dp has been at home this week to take dd to school for her first week and to relieve the strain on me as I return to school.
He has been at home every day while dd has been at school and has just slept or watched cartoon network. To befair he has cooked dinner but it has all been junk food which has set of my IBS and left dd hyper.
No washing done - I did that and what little ironing he has done has all been shoved in drawers meaning I had to sort it al out today. No cleaning done all week and his tidying has consisted of shoving everything under the stairs and dd has been filled with sweets, and I caught him again tonight smuggling food up to her after she had brushed her teeth.
But worse of all, he was supposed to send of the paperwork for a loan we gave applied for and he has just admitted that he forgot ot do it, and I have just found a letter he has hidden saying the loan has been cancelled because they did not revieve the necessary paperwork. When sorting through the other mail from this week which he had shoved in a drawer rather than opening I also found a warrant for his arrest over a speeding fine which is nearly three years overdue.
Dp is a good father to dd but I fid his complete lack of organisation when it comes to things like bills and housework so annoying and it just creates stress and extra work for the rest of us. I know I am an anal cow and I don't expect dp to do things to my standards but it would be nice to see the basics covered such as avoiding arrest warrants and opneing the mail!