why is my head so mixed up about it all or am I just looking to far into it?

[sliverx2]

I really don't know what to think really!
I have eight brothers, my mother drinks morning, noon and night and dad died last year from cancer he only has 6 months from start to finish , we have all been dealing with it in different ways, me I haven't really had anything to do with my family since he died, upset's me far to much.
I have started speaking to 3 of my brother in the last 5 months!
This is were it gets interesting!! Wait for it I couldn't even make this stuff up!
One of my brother's 18 yrs fell in love with a 18yr old girl on MSN, the relationship carried on only on MSN for 5 months, then he went down to see her. But her dad (39) and my brother (18yrs) fell in love, okay it happened, my brother and the girl didn't hit it off face to face. She slept with someone on the rebound and fell PG, and is not with the father of her baby at all. My brother and his partner (her dad) are going strong.
But now one of my other brothers 19ys has fallen for THE girl who is PG, when he went to visit our brother, baby is due in less than 4 months! My brother (19yrs one) want to be there for her and the baby, and is madly I love with her!
so my brother (18yrs) is going to be a step granddad at 18 as well as a father in-law to his own brother!
And my 19 yr old brother is going to be a son-in-law to his brother!
I really don't know what to think at all, all I keep doing is laughing because I just don't know what to say or do!
No body in the family even knew my brother liked males also!
They are all living in the same house, and blissfully waiting the baby and playing happy family's!
I am happy for them all to of found love and they look very happy, why is my head so mixed up about it all or am I just looking to far into it?

Welcome back, sliverx2. I remember you and dp from ages ago too. Sorry you didn't quite get the replies you were expecting.

Chinchilla is still here and now posts as Dior.

!HRHQueenOfQuotes! I will take the apology, but be careful what you say in future there are many ways you could go about it, less hurtful damaging ways! Enough said on the matter like I said I will take your apology!

Sliverx, I don't think we ever 'talked' before as I was a long term lurker but do remember you had a rather complex family situation.

HRH, waht you on about?! I know you've been here a long time- I didn't mean you re searching archives. Please explain, am genuinely confused now.

thankyou for accepting my apology - I'll do by best to be more 'subtle' in future.......but I'm sure you know (being a long standing poster ) that I don't really do subtility (or spelling).

hi everyone
just thought i would stick my 2 pennies worth in and say that i have known sliverx as a personal friend for nearly 7 years and all that she says is true her family situation is rather manic at times, and hopefully people wont judge so quickly next time

i hope not, as my life sounds like jerry springer will have to do a post about that myslef and see if anyone belives it, i barely do and its my life

anyway just thought id let you know

OK folks ,enough said,and everyone has said a little bit and now... i do beleive all the right things have been said to the right person by the right people, maybe its time to put this thread to bed.... lets go find something else to chat about that will make you all smile.... god knows there is always someone worse off than you, and whats been done is history and you cant change the past ,just use the lessons you learn in the future. xxx