Thought I'd throw this open to MN just for an opinion really...
4 years ago family, moved into house next door moved from slightly rough, ok well very rough, estate on other side of town. Father and two teenage boys, we were informed by neighbours(elderly and retired) always in and out of prison for GBH, drugs and car stealing! Great! Mother is an all night taxi driver who likes a drink! Also younger daughter.
To cut a very long story short... the father now no longer lives there, he is either in prison or has an injunction that prevents him from returning to the town, mother and teenage daughter also not living there, disappeared to who knows where. This leaves a teenage boy and one in early 20's, both have ASBOs and both are banned from driving for 3 years. The house is falling to pieces, the garden looks like Steptoes yard and there are 6 cars/vans in various stages of disrepair on the drive and surrounding roads. There are weekly bonfires of goodnes knows what, but they produce black pungent smoke, daily revving of car engines enough to make you think the engine is going to explode out of the bonnet, lots of squealing of brakes, wheel spinning and handbrake turns in a quiet residential area. I suspect that the comings and goings of lots of other 'dodgy' looking youths is as a result of drug dealing. There have been several incidents where we have called the police; a fight between mother and son which turned nasty, a fight between brothers on the street, smashing up of one car with baseball bats and lumps of concrete in the street and last night a hideous episode where some poor soul was being beaten up outside our house,(he was threatened with all sorts of awful stuff and was sobbing for mercy)The police came and we think took the 20 year old away( probably to do with the ASBO) but he is back today.
Generally we have adopted a live and let live approach (unlike our elderly neighbours who have been gunning for the family since they moved in) but we are beginning to be anxious for our safety and the safety of our house. We havent confronted as we dont want it turned on us. (The other neighbour has been threatened.) We have reported this to the council, but they cant do much it seems. The house is mortgaged, although we dont know with who ar how the mortgage is paid as neither boy works?
What can we do? apart from move!