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Twunt next door just squared up to DP...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW????? [shock]

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/08/2006 10:05

He just rang to tell me.

Two weeks ago his car was broken into (alarm wasnt set so we didnt know until the morning) and his radio and some loose change was taken. It caused a nightmare because when they scooped up the loose change the took the immobiliser key that was mixed in with it. DP spent all morning the next day trying to disable it so he could get the car started. We didnt bother reporting it because he hadnt set the alarm and the radio was cheap.

Anyway, last night, at about 1.30am, we were in bed, suddenly heard a loud bang on our car and then the alarm went off (DP had been meticulous in setting it since the break in). We jumped up instantly (our bed is under the window) to see one of next doors sons running towards his house, he looked up for a second then ran inside. DP went out to investigate, and whilst out, heard a window open in a bedroom and someone say "what did you do?".

I rang my brother (who is a policeman) and he said to report it. DP didnt want to because of the time of night and because I have work this morning, so was going to ring them this morning. After dropping me off at work, he decided not to ring the police, but to knock and get them to deal with it themselves. The wife opened the door first and didnt believe what DP had said, giving it the mock shock "NOOO????, NOOOO???, my boys wouldnt do that" etc. He tells me he re-iterated several times that he didnt want any trouble, but he didnt want it happening again. She then said she had heard the alarm going off, and had gone to the toilet, and on her way back checked the boys were in bed (er why? they are teenagers) and that one was asleep on the floor, and the ohter asleep on the bed. At which point the husband came down the stairs, cursing and swearing and telling DP to "fuck off, off my property etc etc" He then squared up to DP and offered him out!!!!!!! (DP wasnt phased by this at all btw but its not the point although DD was with him, albeit not right next to him).

We have to live next door to these people.....they have been ignorant twunts at teh very best of times, and now this......I know its evil to wish ill on someone, but, i just wish they would go away. Very very far away.

(This is the same twunt i posted about the other week who had shunted his other neighbuors car a foot backwards whilst trying to park his van - i didnt do anything about it in the end.....wish i had now)

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Tortington · 27/08/2006 23:01

i know your frightened i have been there - you will have a community safety officer - if you are scared they can give you a beeper - like an emergency button straiht to police station

unless you report these people nothing will ever get done.

your brother will have more details. in fact does your brother not live near you?

could he not arrange for this fella to get ermmm " stopped" rather often?

VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/08/2006 23:07

Thanks COV...

Custy my brother lives near but works the other side of London so has no "influence" over this way. Just hate living under this cloud of "whatever next......."

(says she who has just had to close the kitchen window because of the stench of dope-smoke that is wafting through from their garden...)

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SparklyGothKat · 27/08/2006 23:17

You have my sympathy too, I know whats its like to live next door to neighbours from hell too, it made me so ill, like you say, you can't just shut your door to it, as they are there all the time next door.
I would report it and also if you are very worried ask for a Commituty (sp??) police officer to come and see you, they will tell you how to protect your property and yourselves. I had a 'flag' put on my phone number, in the end, which meant if I dialled 999 the screen would flash and it meant that the operator would dispatch a car straight away, before asking for details.

harpsichordcarrier · 27/08/2006 23:20

blimey VVV what a nightmare for you.
I agree with Custy, I would definitely go to the police on this one.
it is too too grim living with this on your doorstep

VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/08/2006 23:27

Oh i know, i know....

I might just ring the local station on Tuesday to "discuss" what happened and what our options are...perhaps have a community pc come round or something....

I just feel that we are damned if we do and damned if we dont.

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fattiemumma · 27/08/2006 23:30

i know your borther isn't necessarily able to deal with this in an opfficial capacity but i bet your neighbours don't know that.
coud your brother not go round in uniform and warn them that their behaviour constitutes breach of the peace, threatening behaviour etc etc?

that way you get to give them the warnong they need without actually making it all official.

myturn · 27/08/2006 23:32

No words of wisdom VVV but feel so angry for you, having had neighbours from hell in the past (this seems like a horribly common theme here). Don't let it make you ill - do call the station. At least you will feel you are taking some action. Gits!!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/08/2006 23:33

I couldnt ask him to do that FM. It would put him at risk of getting in some serious trouble.

Besides, what faith would anyone have in the Police if they were so easily swayed to breach the very laws they are there to enforce?

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/08/2006 23:34

Thanks myturn

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Freckle · 28/08/2006 03:53

Couldn't you ask your brother to visit you in uniform a few times? The neighbours would probably spot this and then, if they ask you, you just glibly answer "oh that's my brother". That way no one's done anything out of order but they might think twice before doing anything knowing that you have a direct line to the police.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 28/08/2006 20:36

LOL! Its worth a thought, although I find it unlikely the neighbours will ask me ANYTHING from here on.

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goldendelicious · 28/08/2006 21:11

VVV - its soooo crap living next door to arses like that, I know exactly how it feels.

In our area we have an antisocial line - its linked with the police but its seperate IYKWIM - you report antisocial behaviour to them and they log it, if its happening a lot the police pay them a visit. Its fairly new but proving successful so far. Do you have anything like it where you are?

littleducks · 28/08/2006 21:52

Agree with freckle worth a try. He could say bye sis, loudl;y when he leasves?

VeniVidiVickiQV · 28/08/2006 22:18

We just have community police officers afaik....

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Tortington · 29/08/2006 12:38

go - on ask your bro if he can help in any way. am sure he will be able to

Tortington · 29/08/2006 12:40

go - on ask your bro if he can help in any way. am sure he will be able to

fattiemumma · 29/08/2006 12:43

i didn't mean in an official way...just knock whilst he happens to be in uniform sort of ting.

but i understand there may be rukles about that sort of thing.
cokd he not have a word with one of his colleagues at your station for you? ask themt o give your neighbours a talking to?

Tech · 29/08/2006 12:47

If this should happen again, could you do me a favour. Make a picture of your browser (hold down the alt key and press print screen - this copies the active window to you clipboard.) Then paste that picture in an email and send it to [email protected].

Thanks,
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fattiemumma · 29/08/2006 12:48

PMSL! Tech are you on the wrong thread?

i really don't think she was on her PC whilst the neighbour was round lol

Tech · 29/08/2006 12:57

Oops. Wonder how that happened? Back to the right one.....

VeniVidiVickiQV · 29/08/2006 13:17

PMSL! Techs a lurker!

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