I'm back! That didn't last long did it?

[harman]

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so sorry to hear this Harman but welcome back anyway. sounds like you are doing the right thing about remortgaging I wouldn't let him either. Can't he get a business loan?

welcome back and sorry you are feeling so awful. Can't offer business advice as such, but defintely don't make major decisons till you feel better. Hope your husband is thinking hard about work and family at the moment - it sounds like you have laid things on the line. Sometimes it can take a while for change to percolate through. He needs time off and you need extra attention right now. Really hope he realises this and does something about it asap.

I was just thinking about you the other day, so although you are still feeling down,I am very pleased to hear from you. I'm sorry I can't offer any business advice.
It sounds as though you are under tremendous pressure on top of being PG, just come on here and rant and have the headspace you need from time to time

Hi harman, sorry things are so rough for you now. I havent read the previous thread so forgive me if i am offering up advice that has all been done before but do you think that you could try to get some counselling. Sometimes its just great to spill the beans to someone who can listen, someone whose job it is to take the ranting and raving and give you positive input. What about relate with your DP is that an option?

Anyway keep on ranting here cos we are all here to support you.

know how you feel, Harman although in my case dp is a sole trader and has been trying very hard to have a day off (he has one today for the first tim in weeks).

Sounds like you need help with the kids though - is there anyone who can look after them for a while for you?

On the money/business: agree you should leave it for now, but can't you agree to the bigger mortgage on condition that you become a shareholder in the company?

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Hi Harman, I'm really glad you're back. Now don't go away from your support network again!

I hated every minute of my pregnancies and I am sure I turned into the woman from hell during the last one. I know we all expect to feel sick but maybe there is something the doc can do for you? Are you making sure you nibble a biscuit or something when you feel sick - that little bit of food inside you seems to help. And ginger is supposed to be good - how about keeping a packet of ginger biscuits nearby at all times?

I'm sorry dp is so unhelpful, some men just don't get it with grotty 'women's stuff', do they?

Do you have a mum, sister or good friend nearby who can step in to save your sanity by helping with the housework and the kids? If you just have a little break to look forward to every day or two it might cheer you up.

Harman you poor thing, sounds like a nightmare Just try and remember that it is because you are preg you're feeling so awful and it won't go on for ever (though it seems like it now) xxx

And don't leave mumsnet!!

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Oh well, harman; at least you found a way to make your Mum happy. Maybe that will be your official excuse to go to 5 children, eh?
Welcome back!

Sorry, MIL happy, knew I posted that too quickly!

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