Bugsy
I, too, lived in the middle of nowhere w/a normal car. It's incredibly doable! In fact, I know plenty of people who do right now - they live off single track roads, on farms, etc.
I even know a guy who lives in Michigan in a home on the banks of one of the Great Lakes.
They get a LOT of snow.
And yet he's able to drive a normal car w/snow tires.
I've also seen many people outside Canmore, Canada driving around in normal cars in the dead of winter - ice and snow all around. As we said in Boulder, '4 wheel drive = 4 wheel slide.'
'It's my right to drive what I want!'
To me, no it isn't when you live in a society and your actions affect other people. It's not my right to blow cigarette smoke in your face in a public place in Scotland - no, I'm not a smoker - b/c it pollutes your lungs.
So does your unnecessary 4x4.
Ban them entirely. Restrict them to multi-occupant use, business use, search and rescue, military, etc.
They were designed to win WWII, not to take your kids to Sainsbury's.