my world has gone to some form of hell.........!!!!!!!!!!

[psychomum5]

best friend has had to rush to hospital to be with her family.....her grandad (more her dad as he bought her up) has been il for some time.....he is now in severe heart failure and kidney failure.

I am here alone with her 5 and my 5 (ages 2 to 12 including 2yr old twins) and they are being hard work to say the least (understandable really, but being told to f off by a big 12yr old boy, and to also suck my c isn't the best way to endear me!!!!).

also had the worst day yesterday with other stuff and argueing and blame being dumped on me leading to the worst night sleep for nightmares means my day is pure hell.....

I am still in a huge amount of pain from my car accident (am still needing tramadol and volterol twice a day and it has now been 12wks), and plus have not managed to get to sleep before 4am most mornings.....you can understand how I am feeling!

Don't get me wrong......my friend is in need and I would do nothing other than be there for her.......but it is hell and I need to tell someone.....even the world wide web

Isn't there anyone you could get over to hel you out? 10 kids sounds an awful lot!!

Poor you (and Poor FS!)

Cant you send rude 12 year old for time out or give him so me sort of chores to do?

God, I have no idea what I would do with 10 children How big is your house???

Maybe worth going back to see your doc if you are still in alot of pain?

Leave the older ones to watch the little ones and go to bed for an hour

get the older ones involved in a game of a-z
or another game like how many words you can get out of teacher for example
puzzles, whatever or helping cook the dinner

they will be feeling it too
just hang on in there
you are doing a great job for your friend
xxx

Agree with Compo, you need to get yourself some help before you go mad. Any mumsnetters near you?

no-one at the moment........at least no-one who wants to come and be told to eff off I am sure.....

grrrrrr

am coping.....hell, I am on MN after all for 10mins time out, but neeed to vent!!!!!

only managed to have my shower 20mins ago while they were all eating as friend went off at 9ish this morning and I was busy still with breakfasts.......me comes last as per!

Dh has been on the phone to the gobby 12yr old.....he seems suitable chastised......

they now just walked in to ask for the paddling pool......

tamba.....not Flame.....tis my other bestfriend

flame has two kiddies......this friend has been there since we both had our firsts

and house is huge.....one thing in my favour

Get on the phone to Flame then and demand she comes to help

alternativily, crack open the wine

flame is s'posed to be coming over later.......not sure she'll want to tho at the moment!!!!!

and wine....mmmmmm.....tempting but I'll be in a coma due to the mads I am still on, so in some ways more tempting, others scare me as I'll wake to no house.......

grrrrrrrrrrrrr..............now got DS2 throwing skates about......all others outside thankfully except twins and my youngest and they are a tad annoyed.

all wet here tho (from the storms overnight) and should I let them out I know there will be mad cakes made as soon as they were able

let them out babe!

I think it's good that your DH had strong words. Little swine!

Personally, you're mad... but I would do the same in your position.

I think flame should come bearing van loads of chocci!!

Psycho, calling you now, we can cry together

Actually honey, i'm gonna call you later cos I will end up crying too much me thinks and Als has a friend upstairs (wouldn't do for his mother to think Iam emtionally unstable)

Or that I can't spell EMOTIONALLY

lol fio.....nope.....cetainly don't want five more!!!!!!

calebsmummy.......many hugs.....will ring again later, hopefully when all is stable and calm again{wink]