Got nothing, well a card but I'm not throwing myself at his feet with gratitude for that.
We spent weekend at Big Chill, and yesterday, my birthday, was packing up, coming home day so it was never gonna be a great one.
We left on Thursday and I said 'Oh yeah, it's my birthday on Monday, maybe I'll take one of my present from Mum with me so I have something to open'. Anyway, we packed up car and me and my best mate were sat in car waiting for him and he came out, grabbed my arm and siad 'quickly come and choose something onlione for your birthday". I said 'no, I won't, I've written down a list of ideas, if you haven't sorted it by now I'm not getting out of the car and doing it myself, you should have doine this sooner and not left it to the last second'. He said it wasn't the last second.
Cut to birthday yesterday. All mates wished me HP in the morning and I was in tent, he was outside and he shouted out 'happy birthday' and then he gave me a card a bit later. Got home and he still did nothing nice or made any type of fuss. When i said 'once again you've done nothing all year and the one day you could make a fuss of me and show your appreciation and love for me you've blanked my birthday, again.'. He then left me to order and pay for the curry, I ate it in the kitchen he ate it in thelounge and he then said he was going to bed leaving me to clear up.
Last year he bought the shoes I picked out, told him style, product code, colour, size ate. He walked in with shoes int he bag, receipt inc and gave it to me like that witht he words 'hope you're grateful, had to walk all over and they cost me £70"!!!!!!!!!!
I am of course on strike.
He hates salmon so I have taken some out for my dinner tonight.
Put a wash on last night and onbly washed mine and the girls stuff.
I'm going out to De La Guarda on Sat with mates and I paid for both our tickets (ddi that a while ago).
What an arse he si.
I blanked his birthday last year cos of what he did with the shoes and how he was the year before that as well, but it just made me feel bad nothim.
No advice needed, no sympathy, nothing, just want to slag himn off really, job done.