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So just when I said that Sitters was ok....

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JoshandJamie · 07/08/2006 15:17

there was a previous post where someone was asking about Sitters and whether they're any good. To date, I've thought they are fab - use them regularly.

However, on Saturday we had the girl we usually get from Sitters - always been great. Only this time, she helped herself to a packet of crisps I was saving for a picnic on Sunday, ate half and put the rest back. And she took two diet cokes out of the fridge.

Now half a bag of crips and two soft drinks isn't a big deal - but helping yourself without asking is. i don't like the thought of her browsing through our cupboards and just taking what she likes.

BUT WORSE. My husband knows he left his £200 worth Mont Blanc pen on the dresser in the kitchen as he'd used it to write out the telephone number of the place we were going. And on Sunday morning when he looked for it, it was gone. Now admittedly we have small children who might have taken it, but we have searched everywhere for it and it's gone. I can't accuse her of taking it, but it seems awfully suspicious. Giving her the benefit of the doubt, I knew she was doing some puzzles when we got home so I thought she might well have gone in search of a pen and used the mont blanc and then just packed it up with her puzzles - easy enough to do.

I called Sitters (who were great) and they called her and got back to me. Apparently she admits to taking a coke but denied taking any food. She also said she didn't know what a mont blanc pen is and used her own biros for the puzzles she was doing. She is the only one who could have eaten the crisps - so she's lying. And if she's lying about that, then she could be lying about the pen.

Fairly obviously we won't be using her again. Sitters have asked whether we would like to make a formal police complaint against her. Personally, without knowing for sure what happened to the pen, I'm loathe to do it. But I feel really violated. And if she did take that pen I am thoroughly pissed off as it cost a lot and was an anniversary gift from me to my DH.

grrr

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CountessDracula · 07/08/2006 21:47

I am rather shocked at your parsimonious attitude to your crisps and coke tho

mimitwo · 07/08/2006 21:51

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tenalady · 07/08/2006 21:55

half a packet of crisps and putting it back as if not opened sounds just like my ds4.5 would do sure it wasnt the kids.

proudofmyboobs · 07/08/2006 21:59

How big was the bag of crisps? I have to say I wouldn't actually leave any

tenalady · 07/08/2006 22:03

nor me, and I would admit to it if i had admitted to the drink too. Seems very odd

proudofmyboobs · 07/08/2006 22:21

Hm yeah, why admit to the drink and not the crisps? I don't think she ate the crisps... well, if she did then she might as well be hung for a sheep as hung for a lamb? Or is it just me who thinks like that?

And I love the word parsimonious Think I'll try and remember that!

JoshandJamie · 07/08/2006 22:36

Last thing I'm explaining on this: I can't get in touch with her directly or else I would have. I don't have her number. You have to go through a central switchboard and speak to them to get in touch with a sitter. I have no way of speaking to her directly. All I know is her name.

And once again, for the record, it's not about the freaking crisps, it's the principle of it. Good lord, I do hope that everyone who takes umbridge at this thread has the same thing happen to them and then come back on here and be sanctimonious about it.

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proudofmyboobs · 07/08/2006 22:43

You hope that everyone has something to the value of £200 stolen off them? charming lady

tenalady · 08/08/2006 15:39

No, im with you on the principle, just want to be sure it was definately her. she admitted to the coke, fair deal, I personally wouldnt mind if she helped herself to any drink as long as it wasnt booze. Hope you find the pen shortly, im sure it will turn up.

wartywarthog · 08/08/2006 19:24

it's the PRINCIPLE! she ate 1/2 a packet of crisps and drank 2 diet cokes. then she LIED about the crisps and 1 diet coke. so big deal. BUT the PEN'S gone missing! JaJ has a legitimate right to be pissed off! If this girl is happy to lie about crisps and a coke she's damn well going to lie about a pen, even if she did initially take it by mistake. she's stolen it now.

yes, it would be terribly sad if the pen did turn up and it wasn't her fault. but then this would be an isolated incident and she can move on from it. on the other hand you're happy to have someone baby sit for your beloveds and you don't care that she lies and possibly steals? JaJ did the right thing by contacting Sitters, besides which it was the only thing she could do. what if this girl does this with all her jobs and everyone keeps quiet because 'oh shame, it was only xxx and we're not sure about yyy'?

it's the whole principle of the thing. JaJ can't TRUST this girl.

jasper · 08/08/2006 19:48

why did you give your dh a bollocking when you thought it was he who ate the crisps?

tenalady · 08/08/2006 20:22

whog, what happened to innocent until proven guilty.

Yes I wouldnt ask her to sit again on the basis that I couldnt be completely satisfied that she is honest.
It just doesnt compute though, her in house alone with children, she would know the finger could only point at her if the pen went missing and that is only if she knew its worth.

It just doesnt make sense unless the woman is a blatant liar but knowing that sitters go through all sorts of hoops to check their staff it just doesnt add up.

wartywarthog · 09/08/2006 00:26

yes, i agree - innocent until proven guilty. innocent on the pen, guilty on the coke & crisps. the fact is we don't know what this girl is really like. i sympathise with joshandjamie because it's not nice having suspicions about someone you trusted to be alone in your house, with your kids.

JoshandJamie · 09/08/2006 06:06

Thanks for the sympathy Warty. i do appreciate it. I'm glad someone can appreciate where I'm coming from.

Jasper - The reason i bollocked my DH was because the day before I came in from the shops and said: right, don't eat these crisps please or drink these sodas because they're for a picnic. I then found the crisps and soda gone (DH has a bit of a thing for both) so I immediately assumed that he had forgotten what I'd told him or just hadn't been listening to me. But he absolutely didn't take them (and was horribly affronted that I accused him first) - he knows not to mess with my supplies cupboard

If you think I sound like some kind of anal retentive crisp freak - it's only because we are moving house (today) and I had a million things to organise including getting stuff for a picnic. When stuff you've organised then goes missing and you still have a million other things you have to do it makes a person a bit ratty.

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jasper · 09/08/2006 13:11

JandJ hope the move goes ok and I hope the pen turns up !

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