I would like to have baby number 3 but dh isn't having any of it

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He's made his mind up - he wants no more children. {sad] I would really love to have another but there's nothing I can do about it. I have two happy, healthy dds already and I know I should be grateful. There still something inside me making me feel that I have lots more love to give to another. Do I just try and move on with my life and accept it will never happen? It's hard, I just hope I have no regrets later in life when it's too late.

I have 4 and would very happily have another (immaculatly though!) I feel like I have a hole in me when I think about it, like something is missing and nothing will ever fill that hole....

The thing is though that I know I cannot have more for so many reasons that I am trying my best to accept it and move on. But but is so hard and I hope that it will get easier with time.

Sorry no real tips for you apart from distraction and one day at a time...

Sparkler are you me?

I desperately want another one, can't explain it as when I look at the practical aspect it would be infinately better to stop now (money, time, space etc) but I would love nothing more than another child, screw the practicalities. Dh's main worry is that if I have number 3 I'll want another one! he grew up in a large, cramped poor family where both parents worked and there still wasn't enough money. Has horrible memories of being left in charge of younger siblings (as an 8 yr old) to cover the gap between mum leaving for work and dad arriving home. So I can see his point, but I really really want one!