Actually Dadslib this is what you sent me the day before my court case - the most horrid day of my life and this is what sort of person you are - stop pretending to be 2 people - you are weird enough without doing that and I for one am very sad to see you back - and you cannot even do that honestly and graciously.
Here you go girls - I wasn't going to do this but as 'Nicksie' is resurecting this I thought you all could have a read and make up your own minds:-
"Twinkie
I don't know what to say or think at the moment, I'm mixed up.
You don't need it with tomorrow and all that.
Rhubarb contacted me earlier and I said this:
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I have sent a contact to Twinkie today as you suggest, before your e-mail.
I understand Twinkie may not have received it, or may not want to disclose
she has, or may be ignoring it.
For the record, between me and you Lisa, who ever Twinkie is in real life
she would not be a personal friend of mine, she strikes me as too 'girly'
and a very female-centric 'man hater' in general (no doubt coloured by her
terrible past). She seems like she can't take a joke and expects all men
to
be poodles on MN. Not my cup of tea.
I know it may seem a terrible thing for me to say and I wouldn't say it on
MN, but we only have her side of the story for what has happened in the
past
don't we? MN might not treat her with such 'kid gloves' if we had both
sides. We'll never know I guess. So we take her on face value.
Personally I genuinely feel she 'hammed up' the thread that got out of hand
yesterday. She wasn't fooled for one minute, look at her first reply if
you
don't believe me. Revenge is sweet, she has hers now. Her 'little
actress'
posts since don't cut much ice with me either. If she really is that
scared
her x2b might be 'lurking' she wouldn't post at all, not if she had any
sense anyway. And plus, how's he supposed to suss who 'Twinkie' is anyway?
She presumably sees him face-to-face fairly regularly anyway, when handing
over DD during access visits? Sorry, I might be way off the mark, but I
don't buy it, like M2T who faked being scared and thought it was really
quite funny (as she has told me directly on e-mails since), Twinkie is a
good actress.
Perhaps I just bitter about leaving under a cloud, I don't know.
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Now you contact me and I don't know what to think. Obviously I am the sad,
self-interested, weirdo, bleep bleep