Any DH's who are jekyl and hydes???

[melsy]

Mine just told me to F**ck off!!! One minute he sends me to a spa for the day the next Im a peice of slime.

I am not sure if I provoked him, he has started a job in the same field that I was in a couple of years ago. I was very passionate about my career but I cant do anything like that now for various reasons. So unfortunately I am living vicariously through him now,(I miss the prestige/challenge/status), he comes to me for help & support and I make suggestions and state what needs to be done etc.I also feel strange because I was turned down for this dept several years ago, because I didnt have the product experience.Especially now with the last few weeks I am VERY VERY SENSITIVE. The company he is in (I am not allowed to mention were) has not done any planning for this dept and I find it frustrating. He never shows enthusiaism and moans he has soooo much work to do. Were as If I ws in his position I would be excited and challenged. I made a comment to him tonight as my sister mentioned a related article in Marie Claire this month, I told him he should read it and take heed otherwise his dept will be left behind & he flew off the handle and said that his team knows what to do and YOU DONT HAVE A CLUE WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT. This is just great cos now hes going on a cosy trip for 2 weeks with all his GREAT INTELLIGENT FEMALE colleagues to the Far East and LITTLE NUTS WIFE is staying at home.

Rant over , now I have to control the panic attack now rising inside. What an *hole.

Now worried cos a) siad tooo much & offended someone b) bad mouthed hubby in heat of moment c)no one has replied thus feeding paranoia. As you can tell this is a sensitive subject. DH is not dealing very well with my situation at the moment.

i would be so frustated if dh was doing a job i'd love to do and he didnt enjoy it.

Melsy, I think you shouldn't take anything he says too much to heart at the moment. I think you are super-sensitive (understandably) and he, as you say, is probably not dealing with things too well at the moment.

And I don't think you've said too much and/or offended anyone. If you can't have a rant on MN, where can you rant? (((HUGS)))

"You don't have a clue what you're talking about, and f--- off" are dh's classics, he doesn't like to be told by me anything and you stupid woman are words too..

Aren't men from another planet sometimes, I sympathise with you on this one, they do think we have less intelligence than them and hate to be challenged...can only think that's what it is (if he's normally really nice)...don't know what else to say (P.S. my dh's gone to bed in a sulk because I talk about him on here....grrrhhh...they need a good slapping sometimes...sorry not much help but wanted to say something here)..

Lavxxx

You have my sympathies, Melsy.

Melsy, isn't it horrible when you post and no-one replies for a while. It happens all the time and should not induce paranoia...but it does. It just means that no-ones there at the time with anything useful to add, I think.