Before I got pregnant with our child I had all the promises that he was gonna be a good dad and hands on etc... So after 17mths of trying and a mc I finally got preggy.
All was good until I hit 20wks,
He spent more and more time in our home office while I was sat in the lounge alone. I developed antenatal depression.
After birth, the hands on dad I was promised was no where to be seen, I was left to do it all.
Our child is now 2yrs old, I have told him I can't forgive him and am not in love with him anymore because of this! He has done nothing to support me, he's put me down and critized me.
When our child was six mths I was walking into my local supermarket when a new dad with his tiny tot was also walking my way, he was on the phone and what he said made me cry,
He said to whomever it was he was talking to " yeh I'm doing the shopping with the baby, well she's done six weeks she deserves a break"
My heart sank, six weeks! I've done six months! I can't even go to the bathroom on my own or get a shower cuz he was too busy to watch her!
Was I expecting too much? Am I overreacting? Should I just forget it? Or am I right to feel the way I do?