Not sure where to put this... it seems i can't have any more children.

[CHICagoMUM]

I'm not pregnant or currently ttc, but ultimately wanted 3 children. I currently have 2 but dh suffers from psoriasis, which he has tried several treatments for. It is really bad (and painful atm) and he saw a specialist today who said he needs to enter the next stage of treatment which involves either oral or I.M. medication and means he can't contemplate attempting to concieve whilst on the medication or for at least 6-12 months after coming of it.

Now I'm by no means ancient but would need to concieve sooner rather than later. I am in the postition now where dh wants me to make the decision about wether or not he starts the medication now or when?

I feel I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place - I don't want him to suffer with this but I don't feel ready to say goodbye to having another child.

You've all given me a few things to consider and reassurance that it isn't (necessarily) now or never so a big thank you, and we will see what happens.

go for it.

Aw, Chicagomum. If it's important to you (and obviously it is) just bloody go for it. Moving isn't THAT bad. I've done it. Lot's of people have. ANd it's a great excuse to let the movers do all the work.

Good luck in whatever you decide!!

Go for it. We moved when ds2 was 3 months old. It was fine. Mivig when pregnant wouldl be a doddle in comparison.