Now need to get a C.C.T.V camera To protect us from mad old next door neighbour. which one???

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I have had so much stress over the last year I am having dizzy spell and feel like my head will explode.The story goes My dh had an affair with our old next door neighbour( who was obsessed with me).It was very messy as you can imagine.I thew dh out and next doors dh bullied me and told me i had to move.We had to really because dh couldn't even come to see our children at the home.
To cut a long and messy story short we moved home i am together with dh he is wonderful/better than before and we really want to be together.Well now her bloody dh has made it his business to find out where we are and I caught him up our road on Friday.I was so upset.It is so hard for me to move on from it all I am depressed and unwell and here is that bastard following us around.I don't know how he found out where we are but i am so feel like i have been through enough.
Don't know what he is up to but I am scared.What shall I do?

Sorry to hear what you're going through. Haven't got any advice I'm afraid but if you are serious about the CCTV thing theres everything you need here -\link{http://www.screwfix.com/app/sfd/cat/cat.jsp?ts=05442&id=100111\Screwfix}
HTH

Thanks for that.Dh will ring them in the morning i think.Really just don't know what sort to go for.I feel so angry that he wanted us to move so he didn't have to see D.H and now he is driving past our house.What I can't understand is why do it during the day when d.h isn't here.If they moved I would care where they had gone and would be pleased they were out of my life

call your local police station and ask for advice, they may be willing to go and have a quiet word with him. maybe speak to a solicitor about a retraining order if he has actually harassed you in the past and is making you feel threatened.

Make a note of everytime you see him around your street just in case it comes to anything.

The link I gave you is for CCTV equipment but you'd need someone to fit it so you might be better finding a local company or fitter unless DH is a DIY whizz. Anyway, take a look as it will give you an idea of whats available and the costs.

Good luck

Why don't you contact the local community liason officer at the police station and talk to him/her and ask advice.

trouble is I am not sure he knows which number I live at.It is hopeless.We live up a dead end so I know he was up there looking for us.I don't know if he has known for ages and it is not the first time either.We have changed our cars but now he knows what car I drive.If I tell the police and they contact him will they say my house number.Then he saw my car and it is parked on the drive.
He is not from my world if you know what I mean.He burnt his last car out and claimed insurance,I know he makes false M.O.T 's on his computer and he smokes dope and takes other drugs sometimes.I don't know what he is capable of.

I brought a CCTV from argos, it was £30, and is just linked to my telly and video (for at night) because of the neighbour problems we have had. You can get better one from argos. I put my on the inside of my window, so that it can not be damaged, I also put up a light that comes on when anyone come near the house, as we discovered that the camera doesn't pick up well at night.

do you think he could be checking for his wife? You know you have moved on and rebuilt your relationship - and well done to you for that, but could he be paranoid and fearing his wife is still with your dh and is trying to catch them together? NOT saying anything is going on, just want to be clear on that! I am saying he could be scared and paranoid and unforgiving of his wife, even though it is all in the past he might not be able to beleive that, or rehuild their trust.

not that that is your problem at all, but less threatening to you iyswim.