I am fxxxing furious AGAIN!

[galaxy]

If it's not the in-laws slagging dh and I off to dss, it's his BM.

She's not seen him for two weeks and so he goes there today for 6 hours, comes home and she's basically spent 2 hours trying to poison him against dh.

Apparently, the reason she left dh and ds was coz dh made her walk everywhere, never lifted a finger to help with the housework, made her work full time when she was ill and forced her into a nervous breakdown. She never left coz she was having an affair, she was just good friends (with the bloke she's now living with and who's the father of her daughter and one on the way). dh also nearly got her jailed for non-payment of "HER" poll-tax and never let her drive the car.
He took out a loan to pay off her debts after they split up, she accused her ex-boss of assault and then confessed it was a pack of lies and blamed that on her mental state.

But she then told ds how she tried to have an affair with dh's best friend! Something we've kept from ds.

Reality is, dh suported her before and after dh was born, she refused to drive the car he bought for her coz it wasn't small enough, she did have an affair with current bloke (dh has the evidence). And loads more shit that i'm too pissed off about to type.

What the fuck does she think she's going to achieve with this? Why tell ds what a slapper she is - why confess to trying to shag dh's best friend? He turned her down of course.

Fuming

How old is DS?

There are some things that not everyone needs to know. I can see why her own DS might be privvy and of course her ex-dh but your DS - no, no, noooooooo :(

Oh Galaxy, we had this with my DSS BM. She was horrible! She dragged them into court and everything. We made a point of never, ever slagging her off and several years down the line the DSS have worked out the truth.

She even had a go at DP the other day because he finally - 10 years later fgs stopped paying her phone bill. 10 YEARS!!! And he'd been paying for her Sky (and it wasn't part of the settlement). We were still paying for her stuff in England even though we're in Australia.

It's really tough, I know. Hang on in there. At least keep the moral high ground.

Galaxy, never been in this situation but feel for you! All you can do is tell dss the truth without actually slagging her off.
Agree with arfissimo, don't stoop to her level.

Sorry, I logged off right after posting this last night as I was feeling crap.

What pisses me off most is that she comes on the phone tonight being all nicey nice asking if she can have ds overnight on Saturday coz they are going out for a Mothers' Day meal. This is less than 24 hours since she's been slating dh to him.

I asked ds if he'd said anything to her to provoke this and he swears blind he hasn't. I still can't get my head round why she told him about her attempt to seduce dh's bf. ds says he's going to ask her current dp (the one she left dh and ds for), how he feels about the fact that she did this........don't suppose he will actually do it but would be funny to be a fly on the wall if he does.

Just had a call from dh's bf's wife and told her that she'd told ds about trying to seduce himm. (She already knew and they kept it from dh until they had split). She says that now if she bumpsinto her, she'll feel more inclined to punch her...oops

Oooh, galaxy, now wouldn't that be a shame if she got punched?