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Makes me mad......

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batey · 17/12/2003 18:15

Well, my experience today,walking back from pre-school with dd2 fairly close to our house,find a little girl standing on the corner of the road, looking upset, no coat on. I wait near her for a bit, look up both roads to see if I can see anyone, no one about. I ask her if she's O.K., can't understand reply. Ask her where her Mummy is, no reply. Ask her where her house is, she points and says "round dorner". I say can you show me where your house is. She starts to walk, we go too, twice I have to stop her from going into the road (our road isn't that busy but cars do drive too fast). We walk about 8 houses up the road and then a man (Daddy) comes out of his front garden, the girl walks past him into the house. I say 'is she yours?",yes, I explain how far away she was, his reply, 'thats what happens when your naughty isn't it ***" whilst lokking at the girl in the doorway. And then turns away! And that was it!! No thanks, no we were worried, nothing. I'm really not after praise, but if my dds had got out at this age, about early 2's I'd say I'd be frantic and really grateful if someone had brought them home. It's so easy for little ones not to be seen between parked cars. It was also freezing today and she had no coat. It just makes me mad that people can be so nonchalont about this. Any thoughts....?

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twiglett · 17/12/2003 18:24

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Festivefly · 17/12/2003 18:24

My only thought is that its amazing that these people exist, and thank god for people like you

batey · 17/12/2003 19:18

The other thing is I'm sure from the childs name that they're friends of friends so its likely I'll come across them/him again. Bet his dh dosn't know.

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Hulababy · 17/12/2003 19:21

Some people don't really deserve their little ones do they, when they act like that. Makes me angry and sad at once

bunny2 · 17/12/2003 21:10

That sort of thing makes me feel physically sick. The thought of that poor child going into such a cold and harsh home is so sad. Agree Hulababy, some people just dont deserve children.

Jenie · 17/12/2003 21:13

Phone the police and report exactly what happend, that's truely terrible, the poor little might must have been scared silly, what if she'd been kidnapped and .... well it's not worth thinking about but surely you must do something?

handlemecarefully · 18/12/2003 08:45

Yes he most certainly should have thanked you - profusely...

However, perhaps the father was mortified and embarassed and so said very little in his haste to get his dd indoors...he was probably out in the front garden because he had realised that she had slipped out and was looking for her...Lets hope that the shock will make him more vigilant next time!

santafio2 · 18/12/2003 08:54

batey - so glad you found her and not some nutter. My ds is 2 and I couldnt trust him near a road at all, its frightening really

motherinferior · 18/12/2003 09:31

I had a similar incident some months ago - little girl in our road, who was too little to talk and also I don't think spoke English at home. DD1 and I went back and had a little chat, and I felt I just couldn't leave her; I think I knocked on the door of the house she was lurking outside, or perhaps her mum came out (I can't remember) but the wretched woman didn't seem to realise her child had been out in a road which has CARS on it. At least it wasn't cold, but the whole incident was really upsetting.

Jenie · 18/12/2003 09:39

Having thought about it remember about a year ago finding a little girl about 2 in a car park on her own. As we'd been at the leisure center I took her to the pavement thinking that her mum must be looking for her and waited for 20 mins no sign of her mum, little girl wasn't upset but couldn't say much so I took her into the reception area and asked them to phone the police just as the receptionist had got through the girls mother turned up and said "I left you in the car, how did you get out?".

I did say that I'd been stood in the car park for 20 mins waiting with the girl and that small children shouldn't be left alone ever. Did have dd and ds with me so felt very protective about what could have happend.

I have all the doors locked when I'm in the house as should any parent who has a small child imo, they could sneak out with in seconds and it may take the parent ages to search the whole house befor realising that their little ones gone.

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