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What's your favourite LOVE poem? I need one urgently for a wedding next week.

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spidermama · 10/03/2006 11:43

My brother wants my dd to read something at his registry office wedding but she says she'll only do it if I read too.

So .... I'm looking for suggestions for a good but fairly short poem or piece of prose about love.

TIA. x

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anorak · 10/03/2006 11:46

Love Song by Spike Milligan

If I could write words
Like leaves on an autumn forest floor
What a bonfire my letters would make.
If I could speak words of water
You would drown when I said
'I love you'.

tiredemma · 10/03/2006 11:46

i went to a wedding last year and somebody read this -
Now you will feel no rain

for each of you will be shelter for the other.

Now you will feel no cold,

for each of you will be warmth for the other.

Now there is no more loneliness,

for each of you will be companion to the other.

There is only one life before you,

and our seasons will be long and good.

NomDePlume · 10/03/2006 11:47

I don't have a favourite love poem, but \link{http://www.poetry-online.org/love-poetry-index.htm\Poetry-online.org might be able to help. Keats was a bit or a romantic old sap, wasn't he ?}

crumpet · 10/03/2006 11:48

We had this as one of our readings, which I loved:

Let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow

Kahil Gibran

roosmum · 10/03/2006 11:50

i love song of solomon, but reg office makes this no good i think?

otherwise, fave love poem is carol ann duffy's 'valentine', it's strong but a bit dark maybe for a wedding, hang on - will try & find it.

NomDePlume · 10/03/2006 11:51

Yes, Reg office requires that any poem, song or reading is entirely non-religious.

krabbiepatty · 10/03/2006 11:51

Larkin's Arundel Tomb?

roosmum · 10/03/2006 11:52

my absolute fave love poem Smile
(be kind to it please!)

Valentine

Not a red rose or a satin heart.

I give you an onion.
It is a moon wrapped in brown paper.
It promises light
like the careful undressing of love.

Here.
It will blind you with tears
like a lover.
It will make your reflection
a wobbling photo of grief.

I am trying to be truthful.

Not a cute card or kissogram.

I give you an onion.
Its fierce kiss will stay on your lips,
possessive and faithful
as we are,
for as long as we are.

Take it.
Its platinum loops shrink to a wedding ring,
if you like.
Lethal.
Its scent will cling to your fingers,
cling to your knife.

 Carol Ann Duffy (1993)
krabbiepatty · 10/03/2006 11:53

An Arundel Tomb

Side by side, their faces blurred,

The earl and countess lie in stone,

Their proper habits vaguely shown

As jointed armour, stiffened pleat,

And that faint hint of the absurd -

The little dogs under their feet.

Such plainness of the pre-baroque

Hardly involves the eye, until

It meets his left-hand gauntlet, still

Clasped empty in the other; and

One sees, with a sharp tender shock,

His hand withdrawn, holding her hand.

They would not think to lie so long.

Such faithfulness in effigy

Was just a detail friends would see:

A sculptor's sweet commissioned grace

Thrown off in helping to prolong

The Latin names around the base.

They would not guess how early in

Their supine stationary voyage

The air would change to soundless damage,

Turn the old tenantry away;

How soon succeeding eyes begin

To look, not read. Rigidly they

Persisted, linked, through lengths and breadths

Of time. Snow fell, undated. Light

Each summer thronged the glass. A bright

Litter of birdcalls strewed the same

Bone-riddled ground. And up the paths

The endless altered people came,

Washing at their identity.

Now, helpless in the hollow of

An unarmorial age, a trough

Of smoke in slow suspended skeins

Above their scrap of history ,

Only an attitude remains:

Time has transfigured them into

Untruth. The stone fidelity

They hardly meant has come to be

Their final blazon, and to prove

Our almost-instinct almost true:

What will survive of us is love.

spidermama · 10/03/2006 11:55

Does it Nom? I didn't know that.

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wilbur · 10/03/2006 11:59

Some of the words might be wrong, you can check it I'm sure, but I love Brian Patten's Galactic Lovepoem

Warm your feet at the sunset before we go to bed
Read your book by the light of Orion
With Sirius guarding your head
Then reach out and switch off the planets
We'll watch them go out one by one
You kiss me and tell me you love me
By the light of the last setting sun
We'll both be up early tomorrow
A new universe has begun.

roosmum · 10/03/2006 12:00

SM this is lovely too:

It's all I have to bring to-day

It's all I have to bring to-day,
This, and my heart beside,
This, and my heart, and all the fields,
And all the meadows wide.
Be sure you count, should I forget, --
Someone the sum could tell, --
This, and my heart, and all the bees
Which in the clover dwell.

Emily Dickinson

spidermama · 10/03/2006 12:00

Gosh roosmum. I've never come across that one. That's very powerful isn't it? Perhaps too powerful for my very straight brother.

These are great. I have to be able to read it without crying too which could be challenging. Grin

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roosmum · 10/03/2006 12:02

glad you like it SM.
i love strong, open-ended lyrical stuff, mmmm!

jayjaybaby · 10/03/2006 12:03

we had the poem carrries reads out at the wedding where big walks out and she realises its over it made everybody cry but i dont have a copy btw im ahuge sex in the city fan

spidermama · 10/03/2006 12:06

I started to blub ever so slightly when reading out yours wilbur, so I don't know if I dare.

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spidermama · 10/03/2006 12:07

I like the Prophet ones too. Very down to earth and sensible advice. Hmmmmmm! I wonder if they'd impress my seven year old though. Perhaps something hopelessly romantic.

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Mumbojumbo · 10/03/2006 12:12

I read this at the renewal of vow of a friend of mine - lovely:

Marriage joins two people in the circle of its love

"Marriage is a commitment to life, the best that two people can find and bring out in each other.
It offers opportunities for sharing and growth that no other relationship can equal.
It is a physical and an emotional joining that is promised for a lifetime.

Within the circle of its love, marriage encompasses all of life’s most important relationships. A wife and husband are each others best friend, confidant, lover, teacher, listener and critic. And there may come times when one partner is heartbroken or ailing, and the love of the other may resemble the tender caring of a parent for a child.

Marriage deepens and enriches every facet of life. Happiness is fuller, memories are fresher, commitment is stronger, even anger is felt more strongly and passes away more quickly.

Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes life is unable to avoid.
It encourages and nurtures new life, new experiences and new ways of expressing a love that is deeper than life.

When two people pledge their love and care for each other in marriage, they create a split unique unto themselves which binds them closer than any spoken or written words.
Marriage is a promise, a potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and takes a lifetime to fulfil."

Edmund O'Neill (b.1939)

Blackduck · 10/03/2006 12:19

Could always go with Old Shakespeare...
"Let me not to the marriage of two minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests, and is never shaken,
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeksWithin his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom. If this be error, and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved."

greyriver · 10/03/2006 12:38

Think this takes about 1 min to read out loud.....was read at my friend wedding and i have loved it ever since....esp the ending (its a reading not poem thou..)

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.

Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. And when all the pretty blossom has fallen from our branches we find that we were one tree and not two.
-- Captain Corelli's Mandolin

lilibet · 10/03/2006 12:39

The life that I have
Is all that I have
And the life that I have
Is yours

The love that I have
Of the life that I have
Is yours and yours and yours.

A sleep I shall have
A rest I shall have
Yet death will be but a pause
For the peace of my years
In the long green grass
Will be yours and yours and yours.

tiredemma · 10/03/2006 12:40

this is the one from Sex and the city isnt it?

Wedding Poem
by Carrie Bradshaw

His hello was the end of her endings.
Her laugh was their first step down the aisle.
His hand would be hers to hold forever.
His forever was as simple as her smile.

An ocean couldn't prevent it.
A New York minute wouldn't let it pass.
Does the Universe decide for us
Which love will fade and which will last?

He said she was what was missing.
She said that instantly she knew.
She was a question to be answered
And his answer was, "I do".

Hausfrau · 10/03/2006 12:43

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greyriver · 10/03/2006 12:44

love it Hausfrau :)

MrsBadger · 10/03/2006 12:45

One we had was Victor Hugo but mentions the soul, so no good for registry office
The other was Dylan Thomas (read beautifully by our Welsh best man - may not be appropriate otherwise!):

I am a draper mad with love. I love you more than all the flannelette and calico, candlewick, dimity, crash and merino, tussore, cretonne, crepon, muslin, poplin, ticking and twill in the whole Cloth Hall of the world. I have come to take you away to my Emporium on the hill, where the change hums on wires. Throw away your little bedsocks and your Welsh wool knitted jacket, I will warm the sheets like an electric toaster, I will lie by your side like the Sunday roast.

NB do you not need to clear all the readings with the registrar a month before the wedding or something?