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parents on 6/7 year old boys - party ideas!

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puddle · 16/02/2006 19:45

My ds is six next month and he wants another big party. Had hoped that we'd get away with a few friends to do an activity but no.... anyway it looks as though we'll have about 15 kids, 2/3rds boys. Plan to hire a hall to do it in - and ds wants fancy dress theme (may try and hone it down a bit - in previous years we've done pirates and superheroes).

So...my question is - how to keep these children entertained? Am looking for activity and game ideas - don't think pass the parcel cuts it in year 1. Am quite hapy to organise the games - enjoy it actually but I think I need some 'older' ideas than ones that have worked in the past.

What's worked well at parties you've had/ been to for year one-ers?

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alliep30 · 16/02/2006 19:47

went to a premier soccer one if they're into footy.. that kept them quiet and entertained for a while, before knee skidding to music began..they play games etc and get prizes..

puddle · 16/02/2006 19:50

yes, ds has been to a couple of football parties but I want to organise it myself - the ones he's attended have been at the local sports centre and one of the staff supervised a five a side game.

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Cristina7 · 16/02/2006 19:50

For his 6th birthday party we took DS & friends to the cinema and then Pizza Hut. They were about 14 in total. For his 5th birthday party it was cinema and then food & games in a separate room there.

alliep30 · 16/02/2006 19:53

this was actually run by premier soccer so they will go to where you want them... expect tarts and vicars as a theme is out...? how about harry potter for a change?

Bink · 16/02/2006 20:01

clambering places still work very well for 6yos

otherwise, are you brave enough to work up an interactive-storytelling thing? - where they all join in with a story led by you or other charismatic confident adult about goblins & wizards, or jungle, or dinosaurs, or whatever appeals? You could use a story as a link together for various party games.

Do NOT NOT do an art event where they are meant to sit down and nicely make things featuring glitter

ds (7 in April) has requested bowling for his.

puddle · 16/02/2006 20:15

Ha ha bink re: art activity. Actually ds and some of his friends would do this but a good few of them wouldn't. Clambering good but don't want to shell out on soft play place (and I loathe all parties in SP places).

I am definitely NOT brave anough to lead some kind of Milton wordsworth activity altho I'd love to be the kind of parent to make that work.

Cinema - the idea of taking 15 of them on various loo trips throughout appalls me TBH.

Anyone got any ideas about running aroundy organised games for this age? We had the bubble wrap popping competition last year and plan to do that one again, but need some new ideas.

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messagedeleted · 16/02/2006 20:16

ok my tips are

  1. make it 2 hours max - one nad a hlaf is even better

2, eat at half time

3, be quite strict

4, get rid of parents and any bbabies

  1. games like penalty shoot out, corners, wrapping each other up as mummies, races where you have to pop those huge bubble mats ( see party pieces for those)
messagedeleted · 16/02/2006 20:18

ah so you had htat

ok the marshmallow in icing sugar game si good for quietening htem down
aslo passing balloon bweteen legs etc#

i recommend getting a book out of the library
having two extra games and also just some balls nd hoops etc

messagedeleted · 16/02/2006 20:18

ooh ooh also ladders
rememebrthat from brownies>

juliab · 16/02/2006 20:21

How about sporty racey type things? We did this last year. Basically loads of team games. Started off with each team having to rearrange themselves in alphabetical order of names, order of height, length of hair etc. Then lots of relay races - run up/walk back; walking backwards; obstacle course etc etc. Interperse with things like Simon Says when you need to calm things down a little. Loads of fun but you do have to be very fierce and sportmistressy - I even had a whistle

messagedeleted · 16/02/2006 20:23

taotally agree
you have to be s trict
have dh int he kitchen or wherever with wsweets ofr ht losers or those who have to sit out

puddle · 16/02/2006 20:27

Don't know ladders or corners

What's marshmallow game?

I KNOW all parents will drop and run this year except my mates, so no worries there.

I am very strict and DH is teacher so we can keep order!

Julia I love the team games idea (all ds's friends super competitive)

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juliab · 16/02/2006 20:29

Forgot to add that got a whole load of 'medals' from some mail-order party place and gave them out at the end for 'fastest runner', 'best team player', 'most enthusiastic person', 'biggest smile', etc etc - made sure every boy got one, so all the 'my team's better than your team' stuff was forgotten and everyone went home happy (I think!)

puddle · 16/02/2006 20:30

Julie that's a genius idea.

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juliab · 16/02/2006 20:31
Grin
puddle · 16/02/2006 20:41

messagedeleted come back and tell me about ladders and corners

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KBear · 16/02/2006 21:08

What about two teams one end of the hall, pile of adult sized clothes the other end.

One person from each teams runs, grabs a coat, runs back puts it on. Next person runs, grabs a hat, runs back and puts it on first person. Next gloves, boots, scarf, sunglasses, whatever. Nice and shouty and lots of running to wear them out!

mandieb · 16/02/2006 22:15

Instead of pass the parcel use pass the hat same idea ,but a big hat is put on each childs head and get a sweet if you are out .

puddle · 17/02/2006 10:12

I like the getting dressed up idea. Think team games is probably the way to go and am definitely going to get medals for all.

may try an obstacle course - anyone tried this?

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KBear · 17/02/2006 10:21

We did an obstacle course for the kids (and the dads)on holiday once whilst camping! You can adapt it for a hall!!

Cut out a fish shape from paper. You have to flap a flip flop and make the fish move to a certain point!

Crawl under a big blanket.

Put a hat on and a balloon between your knees and run to the next point.

Skip with a rope to the next point.

Juggle with two tennis balls to the next point.

Hop on one leg to the next point.

Involves loads of audience participation, shouting and screeching!

Here come the Belgians!!! (Remember "It's a knockout"?)

messagedeleted · 17/02/2006 17:48

ladders is that game

hoel don willt rya dn googel good isntrctions

messagedeleted · 17/02/2006 17:51

look at all this from funandgagmes.org

"Necking-The-Orange
Equipment: One orange or similar sized fruit per team
Preparation: None

Teams stand in a line with the first member of the team holding the orange. The objective is to pass the orange down the line to the last team member without using their hands. As the name suggests this is done by gripping the orange under your chin (no hands remember!) then turning round to face the next person and for them to the orange under their chin. This process being repeated down the line to the last person. Either stop the relay at this point or have the last person run to the front and start again. The race stopping when the first person ends up at the front again.

Knees and balloon
Equipment: Balloon for each team with spares for accidents
Preparation: None

Teams have to pass the balloon by gripping it between their knees. Last person to get it runs to the front of the line and starts the passing again. No hands allowed!!

Variation:

Wobble
Equipment: Balloon for each person with spares for accidents.
Preparation: None

Have a number of balloons enough for each team member. First person runs and pick up a balloon, holding it between their knees they have to get back to their team and using their knees only pass it onto the next member of the team who passes it to the next and so on. When the last player gets the balloon they pop it, run to the balloon and repeats the process. This continues until the first person who ran is back once again at the front. Have plenty of spare balloons to replace those that accidentally pop during the game.

Handclasp
Equipment: Bag of unshelled peanuts (enough for 10 per team), two chairs for each team.
Preparation: Chairs placed at either end of the team so that the seat of each faces the team. With 10 peanuts placed on a chair of each team.

Each team stands in line each holding the hands of the team members at either side of them. Teams have to transfer the peanuts one at a time to the other chair with hands remaining clasped.

Ring-On-The-String
Equipment: A ring and a long piece of string for each team.
Preparation: None

Each team, standing or sitting in a circle, has a long piece of cord which all players hold with both hands. Thread the string through the ring and then tie the ends of the string together. Teams have to pass the object/ring round the circle several times.

Eggs and Spoon
Marbles on teaspoons
Never done this?.... usually a race done at school fetes or sports days, at least in the UK. Each player has to run balancing an egg (raw or hard boiled) in the bowl of the spoon. Or in the case of the marbles, a marble balanced in the bowl of a teaspoon. If the object falls off players would have to stop, pick it up and replace it before running on again.

It used to be with players holding the spoon by its handle between their teeth, but there is a risk (and reported incident) where players have tripped and ended up with handle going into the back of their mouths. It is suggested that players just hold the spoon in their hands and keep the egg balanced.

Ball-Of-String
Equipment: Ball of wound string for each team.
Preparation: None

Each team stands or sits in a circle, one member of the team holds the ball of string. He/she ties one end of the ball of string to one of his/her fingers and at a signal passes the ball to the next person, unwinding the necessary amount of string this continues around the circle for several laps. At completion of these laps the ball of string has to be returned to the original player by rewinding the ball of string, each player putting at least one turn of the string back onto the ball.

Spoon on a String game
Sent in by Claire Ferguson
Divide into teams of about 5 or 7 for each team. For each team have a spoon tied to the end of a long piece of string (long enough to link all team members together). Teams stand in line and have to pass the spoon from player to the next by passing it through their t-shirts / tops. First team that finishes wins.

Variation
A variation of this was played at St George's Medical School as one of the student induction team games... Men had to pass the string down their trouser legs while women had to pass the string through their tops. No prizes for guessing how teams cheated.

Sardines
Sent in by Kelly Stringer, 1st Paulton Guides, Somerset, UK
2 teams, Gaffer tape (or other wide strong tape, eg parcel tape), 2 plates, 2 tins of sardines.

Team members are led to the floor arms by sides legs together and then gaffered up (bound around the waist with arms taped to sides, around ankles, calves and knees).

The tin of sardines is opened and placed on the plate at the other end of the room. Team members must work together to clear the plate, but work in relay to reach the plate.... by humping across the floor like a seal to get to the plate and eat (or not eat (always have this option!)) what they can and return to their team at the other end to release another seal to eat (or not) some more sardines. Continue until every team member has been up at least once, and the plate of sardines is clear.

If nobody likes sardines, substitute something else.... like baked beans.

N.B. This is one of those games which is not to every parents taste, so be warned. It may be better to explain the game first then ask for volunteers. Make sure all players are happy to play the game. Other caveats are possibly only playing this with older youth (who appreciate this type of game) and getting team members to tape themselves up (one member staying free).

"The only problem we found was 1 person on our team of 8 liked sardines, and had to eat them all, but we had to go up and back just because. We ended up changing it to a shallow bowl of water with some apples, or a plate of baby food, apple sauce, donuts well anything really, but i don't think you can get away with taping their legs and arms up anymore."

Hand Ball
Equipment: Ball or balloon for each team
Preparation: None

Teams form a line and try to get a ball from one end of the playing area to the other, but by passing the ball backwards over their heads with outstretched arms to the player behind. As soon as a player has passed the ball/balloon they run to the back of the line ready to receive the ball again when it reaches him/her. Game stops when team reaches the other end of the hall room.

`Wibbly Wobbly? Race
Equipment: 2 cricket stumps or small waist high stakes for each team

Adult version: 2 pints of lager/cider/beer (or 2 half pints) for each player!

Preparation: If playing the drinking version? play several pints later.

This is an adaptation of a more adult version that was popular at university. Although it is more fun with alcohol (if the age of the players allows it!!) it can be played with out.

Two posts, no more than a metre in height (eg cricket stumps), are placed for each team a good 10 metres apart. Teams line up a distance behind one set of posts. Each team member then in turn has to run to the first post, put their forehead on the stump and holding their head there circle the post as fast as they can anywhere between 10 - 20 times (you choose). They then have to run to the next post and repeat it before running back to the team. Sounds simple? Just make sure there is a fair distance between teams to allow for those players who somehow loose a sense of direction!

The ?adult? version requires each participant to down 1 or ½ a pint at each end before running around the post. The results are funnier when several pints or more have already been drunk before the game!

Down and Back
Equipment: Football or small ball for each team
Preparation: None

Each team needs a football or small ball. Each team member alternately runs with the ball to a predetermined line and leaves it there or runs and picks the ball up bringing it back for the next team member to take it back to the line.

Water Fill
Set out an obstacle course taking full advantage of what's available to you, eg going under tables, under and/or over netting, walking along planks or logs of wood, hurdles... with an empty bucket for eac h team at the end of the course. Teams are given the task of filling a bucket with as much water as possible in the fastest time, but they can only do it by one member at a time running around the obstacle course with a plastic tumbler of water. If they spill any or all the water they still have to complete the course with the tumbler before returning directly and passing the beaker onto the next member of the team. Give each team member one or two goes. Points awarded for finishing first and points for most water (use a ruler to measure depth).

Time Ball
Equipment: Ball for each team
Preparation: None
Teams lines up with about 2m between each player and with the first player a little distance back from the line, as shown in the diagram. Each team has a leader who stands on the line facing his/her team with the ball. The ball is thrown to the first member of the team who catches it, and then runs with it to around the rest of their team team back to their position. Once there they throw the ball back to the team leader and sit down. The ball is then thrown over the first player to the second team member who on catching it repeats the process, running around the back of their team but only runs back to their position. This continues with each player until the last member who simply throws the ball back and sits down finishing the game.
Grab Bag Scoff
Find this and other games at Jonathan's Resources.
Items needed: 2 bags, lots of different food items equally shared between the bags.

Can be played as a relay, but Jonathan prefers to play it as an up front game involving 6-8 people and regards it as a great game for a guys against gals night.

Obtain 2 bags of miscellaneous food items. They must have the same amount of items in each bag. E.g. package of unsweetened Kool Aid [or UK equivalent - perhaps cold black coffee?- ed], a candy bar, soda [fizzy drink or tonic water], a can of sardines, a dill pickle, an onion slice, a clove of garlic, etc. Each bag should have 12-15 items in it. The object of the game is that the first team to eat the entire contents of the bag wins! NB: Kids might need to vomit after a game like this so give them the bag or make sure the nearest exits to the bathrooms are not blocked!

[Editors note - As with all games mentioned, if you choose to play this game no personal liability will be taken for consequences!! As it also depends on what you choose for the contents.]

Fanning the kipper
Paper fish shapes are cut out and lined up on the floor. Each child (and adult) crouches behind one and on the word ?Go? fans it with a magazine towards a dish at the far end of the room. First one to fan a kipper onto the dish wins.

Variation
This is very easy game and a great one for adapting for different ideas like this one developed for games themed around Canada

Canadian Flag
Sent in by Pat Adams
This can be played in teams or by individuals. You need two red paper stripes/bars, a red paper maple leaf, a white sheet of paper and straws. The idea is from a set point to blow the bars and maple leaf onto the white background so that it looks like the Canadian Flag.

Pushing the Matchbox
Get six empty matchboxes, and six blowers (some people call them "devil's tongues"), but you probably know what is meant! Those party blowers that make a high-pitched raspberry noise, with a paper tube that unrolls and waggles when you blow into it. Choose six guests, give each a blower, and on the word go, they have to blow the blowers at the matchboxes and push them towards the finishing line. The first one over this line is the winner. Do this in heats, and then have the champion's race.

Ping Pong Push
Each competitor is required to push a ping pong ball over a short course with his nose. More amusement will be caused if the course is one that requires the player to push the ball back home as the player then has to turn his ball round the corner!

Jigsaw
Give each team the pieces to a simple unassembled jigsaw (maximum of 50 pieces). One jigsaw for each team. Each team member then has to take a piece of the jigsaw to a table at the other end of a course (either through an obstacle course, slalom or straight sprint), put in down or place it in the the puzzle and return. Only one member can be at the table at any one time, but they can put other pieces in place. If there are no more pieces left to be taken to the table the team can nominate a team member to run the course and complete the jigsaw. First team to complete the jigsaw wins.

Messy!
Each team either nominates a team member or takes it in turns. Shallow tray filled with honey, treacle or some other sticky substance, players first have to fish out without using their hands a cork or coin from it. They then go to another tray/box filled with Rice Krispies (Crispy puffed rice cereal in the UK, or similar product) and again without using their hands find and fish out the object hidden it this... said "messy". Have soap and water on standby... and a broom.

Mummy!
Another old favourite... Plenty of economy toilet rolls. One team member is nominated to stand perfectly still. Other team members then have to wrap them up so they look like an Egyptian mummy. Points awarded for first to finish and points to best dressed mummy.

Variation
Snowman
Sent in by Maria Grainger
A great variation for playing in the Winter or at Christmas time! Play as Mummy described above, but add woolly hats and scarves, also pens and blank stickers so the kids can draw eyes and buttons for their snowmen. Carrots can also be used if you wish - the snowman will need to hold it in their mouth.

The Sponge
Credited to Elizabeth Oliveras
Some games are just too good not to share and this one from Jonathan's Resources is quick, very easy and lovely and messy in a wet sort of way!

Divide your group in teams and stand them in rows. In front of each row place a bucket with water and a sponge and at the back of each row place an empty bucket to collect water. When the time starts running, the person in the front dips the sponge and passes it to the back of the line where the last person squeezes the water into the bucket. The row that manages to collect the most water wins. Be prepared for wet bodies and floors!
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messagedeleted · 17/02/2006 17:54

the sardiens one sounds crazy! ok cant find laddres it when you all sit ont he foor in two lines facign each other wiht legs sretched out to touch feet. eeach opposite pair given a number.

when the number is called out ( randomly) the pair have to get up run dwont he outstretched legs adn then back up the outside of their side and sit down. the side whos person wits donw fisrt wins

Skribble · 17/02/2006 22:54

What about a mad scientist party if he still wants fancy dress.

puddle · 17/02/2006 23:07

Fantastic MD, thanks a lot
i DO remember ladders now from Brownies.

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