I'm not a troll but i have quite a few frinds on here who know both me and dh personally so don't want to risk anything.
Dh is adopted and we all know this but none of the family really discuss it. He says he knows his birth mothers name but that's about it. Anyway, I went to see his aunty the other day and we got onto the subject in the new recently about birth mothers etc being able to trace their adopted children and I said that dh doesn't kow what he would do if he got the letter from an agency saying that someone was trying to find him. His aunty told me that if he wanted to know the details about his adoption then he should speak to his aunty X who arranged it all as his birth mother knew them and it was all sorted out via them. Anyway she then told me that as far as she knew his birth mother was a single woman who already had one child when she was pg with dh and that she just couldn't cope.
Dh does not know this and the story I get from him is that she was very young and couldn't cope with a child at the time.
Would you keep quiet about it?