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Just got a lovely hand written, hand delivered letter.....

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HRHQueenOfQuelNoel · 24/01/2006 18:16

through my door, and I'm feeling all teary .

Just before Christmas a very long standing member of the church died, her DH used to sing in the choir, until his own ill health stopped him. She was a really lovely lady, and bought DH and I a HUGE box of chocolate biscuits when DS2 was born, and when she was at church used to spoil my boys.

Her funeral was at the beginning of the month, and, as per usual, I played for it. I play for all the funerals if I'm available, but this was a really lovely service, she'd chosen everything her self and the church was packed - you sort of wished she could have been alive to enjoy it IYKWIM as she loved music and her faith was really important to her. The church was packed, right up to the tiny balcony - the biggest funeral I've played for. They estimated about 230 people, including 5 vicars who came to pay their respects!

Anyhow, I don't usually get any "feedback" from funerals, occasionaly one of last people to leave the church (who are usually the colleagues/people that barely knew them LOL) will say "thanks for playing" but that's all.

Well anyway, this letter is from her daughter and I just wanted to share it.

Dear QOQ

On Behalf of the family, I am writing to thank you for playing at Mum's (xxx xxx) Thanksgiving Service on 3/1.

You played beautifully, as always (), with such expression. Obviously it was a very sad and difficult day for us, but you helped to make the service very special. We wanted it to be a realy tribute to Mum, a celebration of her life, incorporating the hymns and all she wanted and we are very pleased with how it went.

Many have said they found it a positive and uplifting service. Music is a very important part of a service, and you led us all very well.

Thankyou so much Gwen.

Mum love St. B and she'd have been thrilled that so many did their best for her on the day. Thankyou for all your kindess and support to her.

Love and Best wishes

xxxx

Just thought it was so lovely that she's taken the time to sit down and right to me for something, that in reality, is 'part of my job'.

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NomDePlume · 24/01/2006 18:17

awww. how lovely.

Pixiefish · 24/01/2006 18:18

it's nice when things like this happen. Well done you for giving her reason to write and helping the family as it was important that the music was played well xx

moondog · 24/01/2006 18:18

Ahh,it is lovely QofQ.
Hand written letters are a dying art.
Bet it made your day.

georginars · 24/01/2006 18:19

that's absolutely lovely!

festiveface · 24/01/2006 18:19

thats really lovely,you should be proud of yourself too

HRHQueenOfQuelNoel · 24/01/2006 18:22

All I did was played a few 'nice' pieces before they came in (used my book of wedding music - I really must buy myself a book of funeral music - contains virtually the same stuff - bach, handel etc etc - but has got a lovely joyous picture of a happy couple of the front for the bereaved family to see LOL). and 2 hymns, then a piece as they left..

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Miaou · 24/01/2006 18:28

Oh but I agree, music is just so important, it creates (or destroys ) an atmosphere, and will provide a "frame" in which her family will view their memories of that day.

I'm really pleased for you QofQ - you need a lift at the moment!!! Keep it safe and read it whenever you are feeling down

Frenchgirl · 24/01/2006 18:30

that's wonderful, and what thoughtful people to do this!

Mirage · 24/01/2006 21:34

How lovely.You should feel very proud of yourself.

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