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dd's friend's pets keep dying - do I report it to the RSPCA?

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geekgrrl · 18/01/2006 20:52

Dd1 is 6. Her best friend X has had a vast array of pets in the past year - hamsters, mice, two kittens - all of whom have died. Dd told me that X's hamster had disappeared and was found 'completely flat and dry' in her bed. [GAG] And now these two kittens have both died.
I don't know what to do. They've already got two cats which are alive and well, but the mother keeps buying pets for X and her 8 year old brother, and these animals are obviously not well cared for.
X's background is very different from dd's and I'm worried that I might be motivated by some sort of middle-class-superiority kind of feeling rather than wanting to prevent yet more pet deaths.
Do I report it anonymously? Or just keep quiet?

Dd goes round to X's house regularly - TBH the flat hamster thing has really put me off but I try to rise above it all...

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Marina · 18/01/2006 21:27

I felt a dreadful pang of guilt when I found ds' little Tomy pet Sumo flashing his tiny red eyes and flapping his plastic ears forlornly down the back of the bed last week. The manual said he was angry. No sh*t sherlock...

geekgrrl · 18/01/2006 21:27

dh and I once burnt a fish alive.

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Janh · 18/01/2006 21:27

We went on hols for 2 weeks when DD2's sweet midget hamster was on his last legs, and suggested to my friend who pet sat that if he died she should freeze him, so we could have The Funeral when we got home - so she did - so we did!

LadySherlockofLGJ · 18/01/2006 21:28

My brother stabbed a budgie to death by accident...and it was an accident...

Too busy to post now, but will later.

Marina · 18/01/2006 21:28

Hmm, doesn't sound good I agree geekgrrl

Marina · 18/01/2006 21:29

LGJ, you have to fill us in asap. Was it chirping I love you Gary by any chance? And making kissy noises?

PennyLess · 18/01/2006 21:30

I think we are helping her... it shows that it happens!
That is not meant to be flippant, I would also be concerned. But I think you should take solace Geeky, keep an eye on the situation. If the next one meets an equally gruesome end you could try passing a casual comment to the mum - you are unlucky with your animals, aren't you? - and see what her reaction is.

expatinscotland · 18/01/2006 21:30

In YOUR freezer, Jan?!

An autopsy. On a fcking gerbil*! That's Yanks for you, tho. He probably thought we were going to sue him over a gerbil. In truth I wanted to thank him. 'Little Pancho' was horrid from the day I got him, for my 11th bday. He lasted FOUR years - record lifespan for a gerbil.

longwaytogo · 18/01/2006 22:03

dh and i wetting ourselves over this thread. Just reminds me of the school gerbil that we got to look after over chirstmas about two years ago, he got gangarine in his tail and had to have it amputated cost about £34 imagine how stupid i felt when i went into school after christmas to tell them "well i couldn't let it die could I" The thing probably only cost about £4 in the first place. We were never asked to look after it again. Plus we had to give it 0.05 mil of antibiotics every day have you ever tried getting a syringe in a gerbils mouth?

Tortington · 18/01/2006 22:47

rhubarbs mum killed a dog by sitting on it

BadgerBadger · 19/01/2006 00:22

When I was small

My goldfish jumped out of the tank and died

My cat fell in a tub of creosote and tried to lick himself clean and consequentially died

My puppy got run over in a hit and run

My kitten had to be PTS due to a urinary tract malfunction

My dog had to be put down b/c of a problem with his back

Two dogs were poisoned by pheasant shooters (bastards had laid poison on the estate and not thought to tell anyone)

Pony died of old age

Horse had to be pts b/c of internal tumours

Another dog run over

Hamster escaped, lived in the sofa. My mother discovered this when it shot into the hoover while she was cleaning it (the sofa, not the hamster). Surprisingly, the hamster survived this but not the attention of the dog, who caught it as my mother tried to remove it from the hoover.

Lamb fell off a cliff

Looks like a long list of unfortunate events but in only one (the puppy being run over) could my parents really be considered at fault.

As a child it was absolutely horrific as the above were much loved and well cared for pets and other than the hamster thing (wouldn't it have stank? Only come across squashed, dry, rodents in amongst straw and hay bales before now!) it seems as though your dd's friend's family may be suffering similar misfortune?

BadgerBadger · 19/01/2006 00:24

...and I lost the school rabbit!

cranberryjampots · 19/01/2006 00:34

my friend was mopping her conservatory one day and had her dds hamster out for a run abot in there (as it was the only place he couldnt escape from. The phone rang and she went off to answer it having finished hte floor. Upon her return she found hammy floating in the bucket of bleachy water with a blood stained face. She couldnt tell her dds so she lifted the hamster, washed it with fairy liquid to take away tell tale bleach smell, dried it and popped it back to be found by the dds. They still dont know what happened.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2006 00:39

OMG BB!

My friend rescued a baby bird, nurtured it, fed it and taught it to fly etc, only for her brother to accidently slam a door on its neck as it tried to fly to freedom.

I have lost many a hamster (do you know they are cannibals? yuk).

I had a russian hamster once who had just had babies. A fried stuck his hand in the cage and she bit him. He yanked his hand out, hamster attached to finger, babies attached to hamsters nipples. Pink baby hamsters were flung all over my room. When i rounded them up i was one pink baby hamster missing. I searched high and low. I found it dessicated, in between the pages of a book a year later......

I know someone who didnt realise their kitten had climbed into the washing machine before switching it on, not a happy ending there either......

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