I cannot believe how much washing all of you have!!
3 loads A DAY for 4 of you!!!!
I do about 4 - 5 loads a week with 4 of us.
at least 2 darks and deep colours mixed (eg red and black go in together)
about 1 or 2 whites (2 includes t-towels and kids bedding)
1 x towels
1 x our bedlinen.
Everything is washed at 40, vanish on stains I know about, all is tumbled, nothing is ironed. Iron comes out about once a month if necessary, in the morning when I need something.
However DH lives in jeans and t-shirts, kids are in uniform that does at least 2 days, 5 days for cardis, pjs I try for 2 or 3 days but they get out new sets all the time!!
I do it all at the weekend, one load after the other