At my ds's next appointment with the psychologist she would like to discuss my ds's birth history and first few days (not sure why). As it was 9 years ago I cant remember timings - particularly of bowel movements etc. So in a bid to give as much info as possible, I have contacted the hospital to see if I am able to look at my/ds's birth record. I was told that I would need a medically qualified person with me so I have enlisted my friend who is a Sister at the local hospital although I have also explained that I wont necessarily be asking questions. They have told me today that I cant take my friend and that it could take months to get my records and arrange for one of their staff to be with me when I review them - possibly even non medical person. Where do I stand on this? I thought I was able to see what was written?