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Hangover from hell and feeling my age! (long!)

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marthamoo · 11/10/2003 22:58

Went out for a meal last night with a bunch of good friends. We were that gang of women you always get sitting next to you when you have that long overdue romantic night out for two...cackling about sex, childbirth and Wife Swap! Told them all about my mooncup and have convinced one of them..I should get commission (the rest were to busy pi**ing themselves when I said you can put it in the dishwasher at the end of your cycle).

Anyway, in a moment of madness, three of us decided we felt like a boogie and would go on to a club. The others, far more sensibly, opted for Ovaltine and bed.

It has been YEARS since I went clubbing - and ooh, it all came flooding back to me. We went to a new place that's just opened and it was a cross between a Cattle Market and Crufts (miaow!). At last I know who's buying all those minging 80s clothes that have suddenly appeared in all the shops..loads of neon coloured stilettos and asymmetric printed tops in shocking pink and turquoise...and chunky plastic jewellery, what's that all about?

Anyway, us old folks hit the dance floor to show them how it was done. A young man pulled his pants down and waved his willy about a bit which I took to be a sign of welcome (both my boys do the Willy Dance while I'm running them a bath, never seen it done on a dance floor before). It was 80s night, so I was anticipating a bit of Soft Cell, Duran Duran, Depeche Mode, Wham...unfortunately we got Tiffany, Whitney, and Take That. Shamed myself by knowing all the words to "I think we're alone now."

And...there was a point to this...I pulled! A young chappie tapped me on the shoulder and said "what would you say if I asked you to dance?" I replied "I'd say no. Sorry. Run along now, dear." He looked quite sad. Couldn't decide whether to be flattered or if he just thought I looked old and desperate enough to say yes.

Oh, but I'm paying for it today. I haven't had a hangover like this for a long time. Dh, bless him, has been a star and taken the kids out for most of it, and I've stayed in bed.

Best bit? As of this weekend, DS1 (6) has to keep a diary of what he's done at the weekend. Now last weekend he could have written "Mummy was busy cooking vegetarian meals for seven people as we had visitors, we went into the countryside for a lovely long walk."

I looked at what he's written for today..

"Mummy was sleeping all day. She only got up in the afternoon and went back to bed straight away. Daddy said she drank too much wine last night. Daddy took us to Mackdornaulds."

Note to self: I am a 34 year old, married mother of two. I am member of PTA, and help out in school every week. I must not attempt to relive my misspent youth and go out boogieing and drink many bottles of Smirnoff Ice and get chatted up by young men.

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WideWebWitch · 11/10/2003 23:03

Note back to Martamoo: No, this is exactly what 34yo married mothers of 2 should be doing now and again -drinking and chatting and dancing and maybe accidentally pulling. at your ds and his diary! His teacher will have a good snigger at that one...hope you feel better tomorrow.

whymummy · 11/10/2003 23:03

het,it sounds like a great night out!!wish i could have lots of them

jasper · 11/10/2003 23:14

marthamoo, console yourself with the fact you have given an old lady a really good laugh with the description of your exploits.

I am jealous!!
Hope your head is feeling better now.

jammamia · 11/10/2003 23:34

Know the feeling - I think it's age that now requires me to spend 24 hours with a hangover, remember the days when you did it on a friday night and then went out and did it all again on saturday night (with a shopping trip in between)!!
The willy dance bit made me laugh a lot!! I've never had a grown man do one for me - feel proud!!!
As a 32 year old mother of one I try to have nights out like this at least once a month!!

lilibet · 12/10/2003 01:31

loved that - look on the bright side - at least you weren't old and desperate enough to say yes!!

Ghosty · 12/10/2003 07:21

Go Marthamoo ....
Totally agree with WWW - it is EXACTLY what a 34 year old mother of 2 should do! Next year I shall be a 34 year old mother of 2 and I fully intend to do a bit of clubbing and pulling of sweet young chappies!!
ROFL at the willie dance and your DS' diary!!!

katierocket · 12/10/2003 09:36

mathamoo you always crack me up. you go girl! - particularly liked the willy dance

doormat · 12/10/2003 10:23

marmathoo is right weh hey
I love going out drinking and dancing
sorry about the sore head though- do you fancy a fryup only joking
stick to the same drink and you wont suffer that much the next day.

lou33 · 12/10/2003 10:23

Marthamoo I go out every couple of months with another mumsnetter to an 80's night, and your story sounds like mine! Except at the end of the night I end up with foot injuries due to dancing in high heels (I don't often wear them and look like Dick Emery in drag when I do). There's always some lucky young man wanting attention from us, I say toy with them then destroy them, lol. It's all harmless fun, and you sound like you had a good night. My last couple of times we haven't got in until 5am. Actually this is making me want to do it again!

I'm almost 37 and have 4 kids btw. I can't think of a better pasttime to let my hair down.

Angeliz · 12/10/2003 10:26

oh i LOVE that Tiffany song! You should do it once in a while i think to have a giggle and remind yourself how nice it is at home with dp and kids! Thats the way i always feel!

doormat · 12/10/2003 10:45

Lou I think the young lads like older woman for experience etc,
I see it as harmless fun a young lad trying to pull me but it makes me feel good about myself too

lou33 · 12/10/2003 11:39

Absolutely agree Doormat, does me the world of good! It should be mandatory to be chatted up by a twenty something once a month imo .

Dh went out last night for the first time in ages, and he stayed with his mates. I ordered him to do a bit of harmless flirting to boost his ego! He's not back yet so I don't know if it worked or not.

motherinferior · 12/10/2003 19:55

I went to a party last night and didn't know anyone and came back early - you sound like you had a MUCH better time.

Lucky sod.

Personally am 40-year-old mother of two, youngest of whom is only 3 months old...

Loobie · 12/10/2003 19:57

Well i will be doing plenty of boogying and will most probably be very drunk on saturday as it is my birthday, i will be a whole 27 and mother of 3,so as such will be having a ball.

Cam · 13/10/2003 09:57

I think its great Marthamoo and the best bit is remebering you can choose to do that stuff occasionally as you've got a lovely dh and children, you're not doing it because you're looking for a dh, etc....

marthamoo · 13/10/2003 09:58

Thanks all, glad I made a few people smile

Hangover lasted two days...sheesh. Feeling vaguely human again today but house looks like a bombsite. Ah well.

Going to that club mainly made me nostalgic for the clubs of my youth. It was so bright and spangly - and way too many mirrors! In my day clubs were dark and dingy, the walls were damp, the toilets were a health hazard, and they used to chain the fire exit shut to stop people getting in without paying. Those were the days

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