WHERE'S MY sex DRIVE GONE???

[CONNEELY]

Any ideas on how to get it back..

I swapped mine for a gorgeous baby.

Quite like the baby, so reckon I'll keep him, instead of getting the sex drive back!

Conneely, babes, 'course your S-Drive will have driven away if it's painful...have you got a good sympathetic and preferably female GP you can have a chat with? And try Senselle lubrication. You can use a few drops, surreptitiosly if you like, and it seems to kickstart your own.
Also, this is something I have discussed with my dp, as it's something he is experiencing too. Thing is, he doesn't find it as hard to go from 0-60mph in 60 seconds as I do, and I suspect it's the same for lots of women. Before I had DS, I used to spend lots of time during the day and evening having little glimpses of sexy thoughts, sort of all-day foreplay. Now too busy thinking about tea, wet washing, overdue work projects, wondering if the constant wail of 'Mummeeeeee'is due to serious accident....and MN-ing, of course. So by the time DS is in bed, washing hung up, etc etc, any action in the Vitamin F dept comes in from the cold, with no mental or emotional preparation. Not sure what the answer is, but you're not alone, and it's not unusual. Maybe we could all try and fin some moments for a bit of sexual fantasy during the day??????

Blu, totally off topic, but I always think of Blu Cantrell when I see you posting!

Sexual fantasy involving one's partner, I assume, Blu?

God knows where mine's gone. Disappeared pretty well when I got pregnant with dd1, much to my surprise and chagrin.

And I know just what you mean about the 0-60 thing...

I've not had one either since Lily was born (14 months ago). Incredible we have managed to conceive a 2nd!

Do you think it is our choice of names? My oldest is Lily, and have often wondered how the other three came along! Happy to report my sex drive is back better than before now.

Well, who knows, M-Inferior, who knows? Whatever works, I say!

Better than Blue Cow, Lou!